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First of all it isn't any of your business. Just because you two went out in the past, that doesn't mean he wants you in his life anymore, nor does it mean he welcomes your opinion or input on why he does with his life. The fact that he is refusing to respond to you is a bit of a dead give away that he doesn't want you in his life anymore and wants you to leave him alone.
You claim he isn't making any friends, but how do you know that? Are you stalking him that badly? Maybe he has made new friends but they're simply not connected to any of your spheres of influence or knowledge. Maybe he has all the friends he needs. One does not need to go out and constantly find new people to hang out with.
In my 20s, I used to host parties, have lots of friends and was quite social. Then I got jumped by some drunks, got sick of all the petty childish drama and most of my friends ended up back stabbing me and weren't there for when I needed them.
I dropped all that crap out of my life and am much better off too. Dropped my girlfriend, dropped the so called friends, stopped hosting house parties and cleaned myself up from all of that crap. Now I'm married, have a kid and move countries and I'm a lot better off than I was.
I get that you seem to care for this guy's well being, but you can't force someone to accept your help and if he doesn't want help from you then that's it... Let it go. It's no longer your business. What he does with his life is none of your concern.
You've noted your age is between 25-29... Which I assume your ex boyfriend is also around that age. That means you're both grown adults capable of living your own lives, making your own decisions and facing your own consequences.
You need to move on and leave him alone. You're not his mother, you're not his wife, you're not his girlfriend... You're his ex. An Ex he obviously wants nothing to do with anymore.
Stop messaging him and move on.
I dont want to sound cruel so please understand that what o say i say with respect and from a place of kindness. Leave him alone he knows that you have tried to get in touch and has not responded. He is done with you and your relationship and has moved on. You need to do the same. It would be awesome if you two could remain friends but he has chosen otherwise. You need to worrry and care for you. I dont know you but i am worried about you. You are not in a healthy place. I know when a relationship ends its more painful than when i got shot or even when i was blown up. I would take eitjer of those agian rather than feel the pain of my heart breaking. Go have a good life dont look back. Stay strong and be brave. Remember pain is only weakness leaving the body.
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Let him be, he need time alone to heal himself, the way he reacted was not ur fault... thats my opinion
Im in that state of seclution too jaja not talking to that guy
I think you should stop worrying about him. He’s clearly moved on from you so why haven’t you done the same from him?
He broke up with YOU. It’s okay to feel hurt from it. You should. You obviously cared about him. But he broke up with you which clearly means he no longer wants you in his life. So you need to find someone else because he doesn’t deserve to be running circles round your head all day.