Most Helpful Guy
tbh if you aren't comfortable with doing something but he is being mad at you for it, then he is the one being selfish as he is trying to play emotional leverage against you..
do not feel like you have to do something which you aren't ok with regardless your boyfriend needs to grow up and stop being a selfish over privileged git (sorry if came across harsh but it isn't fair on you and will result in you resenting him if you are made to do something you dont want to do)
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Most Helpful Girl
Yes you are being selfish. I'd think about how you'd feel if he didn't want to do it to you? Now evaluate why you aren't comfortable with it. Address that issue. If you are insecure, get him to help teach you. If you think it's gross, get over it. It's not gross and again, how would you feel if he thought you were gross?