What are your three non-negotiables for a love interest?

He has to work or go to school
He has to be protective/masculine
He has to be intelligent
What are your three non-negotiables for a love interest?

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  • Goes to school/works/seeks a job
    Good looking
    Masculine without being cocky/a jerk

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  • -She has to be loving, affectionate, and like sex
    -She has to have at least some similar interests so we don't get bored with each other
    -She has to have a good personality and communicate well

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  • - Non-user of any elicit, addictive, or psychoactive substance, including, but not limited to nicotine, ethanol, THC... etc.
    - Intelligent, loves to learn, and educated, preferably in STEM or BIOMED.
    - Share my core religious and moral views. We don't have to agree on everything, but if we're not in line with our core values, then it's a no-go.

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  • can't smoke.
    Must be understanding of people with emotional and mental disorders.
    Can't have had a long sexual history.

    What if the guy works from home? What if he's a YouTuber? Does that count as work to you?

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    • 2d

      I'm not including loyalty and what not because that is a given and is already expected of.

  • There must be passion, trust, and respect. If we are meant to be, love will develop with time.

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  • Must have the ability to act enlightened. May not be unable to comprehend the phenomena of their mind and body to the extent that obvious condemnable acts are treated with impropriety.

    Must exercise values of humanity and must act principled without superficiality and duplicity.

    There really isn't a third worth listing.

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  • Same as everyone... any who said differently... would you really be willing to be with someone who were all the things you said but were missing the following.

    Loyal

    Honest

    Caring

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  • 1) she has to be emotionally intelligent and emotionally put together (no crazies)
    2) she has to be mature, responsible, loyal, caring, affectionate, and be able to enjoy my politically incorrect sense of humour
    3) she's gotta be fit and pretty with either big tits or a big ass (bonus points for both) and not be a prude

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  • She must be a tomboy
    She must be dominant
    She must have a career or wants one

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  • - Can't be a cannibal
    - Can't be a murderer
    - can't be dead

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    • 2d

      at least you can be sure that you can have children... Particularily children that stay alive.

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    • 1d

      Don't worry! I'll guide you how to be very easy t get along and not so picky guy!

      You are most welcome <3

    • 1d

      Thank you for your guidance ♥️😂

  • 1) Has to have strong integrity and trust
    2) Somethings in common
    3) An absolute slut in bed.

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  • She has to be physically attractive to me (fit, athletic, sporty type of girl)
    She has to be loyal
    She has to be biological female, not older than me

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  • 1. Has to accept who I am from Day 1, even if I don’t change with age/time. Don’t come at me with some trait of mine I’ve had the whole time and then get mad that I have the same trait later in life. I’m not your project, I don’t change for anyone but myself, and you can either love it kick rocks. I don’t need you to feel the same thoughts or feelings I do, don’t expect it of me either.

    2. We have to have some kind of physical attraction and sexual chemistry, it’s kind of foolish to suggest otherwise.

    3. Gotta be a low drama situation. I don’t have the time or patience for people getting upset all the time. I need to be in chill mode like 99% of the time, I can’t have someone who’s always upset or flustered about things I or someone else did. You have to be able to roll with life’s punches without fits of crying and whatnot. Loud noises and any type of hysteria from people is just the opposite of what I want in my life.

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  • 1. Beliefs and values must be common (must be compatible).
    2. Must not smoke, drink, or use drugs.
    3. Must be a grown adult, born a female.

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  • -Respect
    -Willingness to put effort into the relationship
    -To have genuine feelings

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  • She has to not have a penis, she has to be loyal (not fkn another guy), understanding and not argumentative.

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  • Smoking is a no go
    Super leftist , Feminazi , vegan, sjw etc is a no go.
    Hypocrites are also a no go.

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  • -She has to be my financial equal.
    -She has to be healthy
    -She has to have similar interests

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  • 1. She has to be adventurous
    2. She has to be creative/artistic
    3. She needs to have a witty sense of humor.

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  • Abstinent (virginal or very close to it)

    Healthy, with a discernable figure

    No smoking or (frequent) drug usage

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  • Highly empathetic
    Thinks I'm special
    Healthy body

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  • 1. Wholesome personality
    2. Non-smoker
    3. Dog lover

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  • Must be Christian or ambiguous, willing to change

    Must be loyal and committed

    Must have a good sense of humour (preferably a dry or goofy one)

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  • Has to have similar values
    Has to have a raison d’etre
    Has to have guts, but also a willingness to compromise

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  • Has to be loyal
    Has to be physically attractive to me
    Has to be understanding

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  • A good Christian.
    Wanting children.
    Supports my dream career.

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  • 1. emotionally intelligent (responsible, accountable)
    2. skinny
    3. loyal

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  • Must be completely single
    Loving, affectionate, and loyal
    Fun

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  • She has to be mature
    She has to be good hearted
    She has to have a healthy self Steen.

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  • Hygiene
    Basic education and common sense
    Sense of humor

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  • Only one for me l like the girl for been the girl that she is lol she knows who l mean

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What Girls Said 18

  • Looking gorgeous as always!

    I can’t think of any rn haha I’m not too fussy

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  • Not be a piece of shit
    be loyal
    be their own person- like do things they want to do and not let people tell them how they should believe like "I'm going to University because of my parents" being your own person makes you interesting.

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  • He has to be honest
    He has to be kind
    He has to be respectful

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  • Has his own place, respect woman, and has to be clean!

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  • Respect my "me time" aka not clingy.

    Same or higher education.

    Same political views.

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  • -Open mindedness.
    -In touch with emotions.
    -Loyalty.

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  • He has to be loyal
    He should believe in God/spiritual
    He should never smoke cigarettes/marijuana or do illegal drugs.

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  • 1. No drugs or alcohol
    2. Must be masculine, and this is shallow, but look good shirtless lol
    3. Has to be a gentleman

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  • Must be Christian
    Has to be loyal
    Has to be gentleman.

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  • He has to be loyal
    He has to be mature
    He has to be respectful

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  • He has to be intelligent, financially stable , and protective

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  • You know me

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  • Funny, smart and respected

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  • -affectionate
    -quirky
    -funny

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  • Loyalty
    Open minded
    Intelligent
    Affectionate

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  • None I give up on love :/

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  • Good Hygiene, Kind To People , Communication.

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  • There are no rules in sexual attraction.

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