Would you feel uncomfortable with the girl going on top first time you have sex (Just as a matter of course.. so she can control the pace)?

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  • No problem.
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  • I’d be uncomfortable but I wouldn’t say no bc I want her to feel safe.
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  • Not happening, she can be on top with someone else.
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  • Other.
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  • I’m ok with it if there is an underlying reason for it’s importance.. For example: She is a Virgin orshe is super tight or I’m above average and she’s concerned about pain.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I am guessing here, but her being on top seems like it would show her interest. And the woman being into it is one of the biggest turn on for men, statistically.

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  • I would prefer a girl be on top anytime we have sex. It shows she is enthusiastic and I'd be more turned on by her being on top.

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    • What if she wants to be on top but is shy or move slowly or has no experience or all of the above- is it annoying?

    • I wouldn't mind because I'd care about her and like her. I would be fine if she has no experience because I don't really have any either. It is also fine if she moves slowly until she becomes more comfortable with sex.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Haven't had this particular situation. Have had ex. being a bit uncomfortable with certain things. He is okay now.

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What Guys Said 30

  • Uncomfortable? That sounds ideal. Of course, I can't exactly speak from experience, but I imagine anyone would prefer being on bottom (including myself) because its just less work.

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    • A Virgin _ might_ not prefer it.. bc it means less control 🙃

      But I see your point 😊

    • I am a virgin, and I'm not too worried about "control". I'm not exactly afraid that she's gonna go too fast.

  • Not at all.

    I enjoy a variety of positions, with cowgirl being one of them. If that's what she wanted/enjoyed, then I would be more than happy to oblige her. If it helps her to enjoy herself more fully, then I'm all for that.

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  • I'm not into BS sex role power games. If It's our 1st time it might be he best chance
    To orgasm.

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    • I don’t understand your answer

      Is that yes or no?

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    • Ok then it only soulded like option 3 that the bottom might be a submissive position for some peaope. Trust me I never thought of it that way. No plrolem of any kind.

    • Ohhh Lolol totally misread that. And I didn’t mean to imply I think the bottom is submissive... only logistically it can be easier to pace things if on top

      Yes some people think of bottom as submissive I don’t as if he having sex with someone not to them or from them

      Sorry about the misunderstanding

      Thank you for answering and explaining 😊

  • No problem at all... always prefer sex after marriage. The girl will feel safe and very happy because in the end she's making love with her husband and not a random guy or a stranger even if she knew him and had feelings towards him, he's still a stranger to her...

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  • Not at all. I'd actually prefer she get on top at least part of the time. Makes me feel more like she really wants to screw me. Less "worry" about, maybe she's only submitting and doesn't REALLY want to.

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  • I enjoy having the woman on top. My cock is rather large, very thick, so she can better gauge how much goes in her.

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    • Cool and good point I’m glad people think of these things 😊

  • I prefer it, actually. I'm not supporting my own weight, and it leaves my hands free to so other, delicious things... ;)

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  • Some insecure guys might feel their power is being given away. That’s bollocks ! I love when she is on top

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    • Cool 😎

      .. I think one answer feels his power might be taken away but will allow it under special circumstance

  • im perfectly fine with that. her happiness and safety is my world, but also I would like to try that out too.

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    • Nice! 😊

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    • Gotcha 😊

    • ya, becuase if she was worrying then that makes it less pleasing

  • Sure u ccan and i actually want my girl to b on top first time we have sex... she can actually control to move slowly and stop at points it hurts... no problem if she is ginna be confortable with sex then only we would be able to enjoy

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  • Be fine with that any time if it is the girl's preference

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  • Other-- I'm fine with it as long as she isn't fat, though I suppose if she's fat I wouldn't be fucking her in the first place, so... yeah. Girl on top is great.

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  • I have no problem with that. Her being on top can give her total control and be more comfortable.

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  • I'd be happy with her being on top, 1st time or ANY time.

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  • I don't feel uncomfortable at all. It can be a lot of fun.

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  • I wouldn't care for that, but never say never.)

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  • Well considering that's my favourite position I'd be more than happy :P

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  • I have had a girl get on top the first time we had sex. It was great.

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  • I love being ridden!

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  • Sure, however she wants it

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  • I prefer that, actually.

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  • I actually prefer it.

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  • It really doesn't matter.

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  • I have no problem with at all

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  • I'm ok with it

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  • I would love it.

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  • I want her to enjoy..
    As long as she enjoys

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  • May be yes.

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  • As long as i get to go deep inside those sweet walls its all good deeeeeeep inside deeeeeeeeeeeeeeep insiiiiiide

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    • Maybe not if she’s a Virgin though

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    • Not the first time that’s way too fast

    • Oh ok go slow then i guess it will be more intimate that way good look use lube if u can't get wet enough

  • No problem with it at all.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Guys don't care.. As long as they get pussy.

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  • That is exactly how I lost my virginity lol.

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    • Really? Can you pm me or just tell me here how it worked out?

      I’m not looking for porn material I just want to know basically if it was Easier it harder than being on bottom and if you guys were cool with it and how much pain etc

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    • @Rexnine9

      Lolol 😎

      What were you like a young bull?

    • Yeah for about a minute freshman year of college. lol ;-)

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