Can you date someone that had multiple sex partners?
What Guys Said 33
Yes, but there is a limit, and that's when you see the red flags.
Some people are incapable of stopping. Keep that in mind.
No. I can barely stand that my wife had two before me. 16? There’s no possible way. And statistically he certainly has a sexually transmitted virus. You wouldn’t just be having sex with him, but with those 16 girls, and the? guys each one of those has been with. It’s disgusting... unless you’re the same for some reason.
If he is glad to wait until marriage for you then he is a good guy and i think really left his player ways behind. Just stick to it and that will tell you what you need to know.
Id also not blindly assume the advice about what men think is ok from a woman should be applied to men. Men and women are different, they act differently and are treated differently so just keep that in mind when reading all the opinions.
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Welcome to the real world, I'll be your guide.
Its difficult sometimes to connect and bond with people, if he loves you, can be fateful to you and you guys are bonding and connecting I would say you guys are on the right track.
Focus on what you have now and the past is history.
When dating people, I don't go into their past a lot because I know that that person wants a new start, you can't hav a new start someone constantly looks into your past.
i can deal with multiple partners but 17 is a lot. so it would greatly depend on how i felt about the individual and if i truly thought they were ready to settle down.
Have you talked to him about your feelings on this subject?
I wouldn't trust it. I believe in quality over quantity, so it would tell me that something is wrong. On the other hand i would be kind of envious if he was sleeping around at that age.
Get him tested before you go further. You don’t want to get married first, then find out you can't have sex.
I try to be open and that it does not bother me, but everytime I gave it a chance, it ended horribly bad.
So I guess I am done with that.
If it exceeds 10 (and that is generous), I'll pass on that.
Not really. I stay virgin so I expect my wife to be too
You are very cute, I'm curious to know what country you are from. And yes I date women who have had a lot of sexual experience.
Depends if he's done playing and you can live without being jealous
I've heard of A lot worse than 16 sex partners. It is a high number but if he's into you that's nice
why not more experience is better for you as not boring or crap in bed
I mean i would have the same feeling you had. Strange.
Run far away and never go back
He's probably lying
Nope because I’m picky asf
Past is the past.
Lucky guy. Make sure he is clean
I've had 3.
16 is not that baf
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What Girls Said 21
It’s kinda hard to find anyone in their 20s who hasn’t had sex with more than one person (if we’re including ones that are obviously lying about it). It just means they’re gonna be more experienced really and as long as they’re STD free what does it matter. Once they start sleeping with me they won’t feel like ever fucking anyone else anyways so I would not be worried 😂
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Look, as long as he doesn't cheat until he waits for marriage i guess it is fine. The key is he has to prove that he will stop to you and sex isn't a priority. Don't give your v card to him until you are sure he is worthy. People make things they later regret. In today's culture he may have followed the rest without thibking much, at that age it happens. Just make sure he is worthy before doing anything big with him
Yes, we live in an age where people sleep around and as long as they're checked for STIs, I'm not bothered. My boyfriend and I are actually on about the same number of sexual partners. I would be surprised if he is able to keep away from sex until marriage - that's quite an old fashioned way of viewing things. Hopefully you've thought deeply about your reasons for it and also read people's experiences of losing it to their spouse for the first time.
Initially, if there’s chemistry upon first meet, I could potentially fall for them. But once I find out, I’m not so sure if I’d be able to last in a relationship because it would eventually bother me.
Yes I would honestly your lucky he shared and was honest. If he clean and faithful you shouldn’t really judge... girls get mad when guys judge same applies
Well I would have trust issues then too, I understand the weird feeling you get, especially if he’s handsome lol
Sure especially when there young should have fun if you want. I think it’s just got old it gets old eventually then you want something real. My brother the bit of a player he’s 18.
Yes of course your can date someone with a high body count
16 former sex partners would be really off putting to me... Couldn't trust someone like that.
Yeah I’d feel grossed out to be honest, but if you really like him then you should put the past aside
It is normal I think for guys to have more experience. Especial if they are a guy most girls want!
You can’t trust anyone!!! He will not stay faithful to you!! They never do!
Nah. Would be too much for me. He probably expect a lot
No I can’t
Maybe if he doesn’t have player vibes
If he didn't he will any way
I couldn’t have multiple relationships no. I had threesomes but I’m a one woman relationship.
He’s gonna cheat on you. Once a hoe always a hoe.
Yes. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.
I’m no angel. My boyfriend is far from it. It takes away none of the specialness we have together, what’s important is is now and the future.
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