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the fact that she cheated on you and 'wouldn't even deny it' means that she does not respect you.
Obviously you are a very kind but also very weak man, you don't have alpha traits and can't act tough. Now, if you don't want her to cheat on you, changes need to happen from your part.
You gotta realize that the reason why someone cheats is because they dont have all their want in their partner, and there are things missing.
I can already tell what's missing from you is confidence and just outright strong personality that cannot be shook. Once you have those you will notice her respect suddenly increase dramatically and even the way she looks at you is different.
What you can do now since you don't wanna leave her no matter how much she cheats:
1. either accept the fact that she will always cheat on you and live with it, but you gotta predict that one day she'l just leave you cause she will lose more and more respect to you in time. ESPECIALLY and big ESPECIALLY is if she knows YOU know she's cheating and are not doing anything about it. that's literally the ultimate lost of respect towards you and the words you would be described by her and others are 'cuck', 'pathetic loser', 'beta bitch' or even a 'pussy'.
2. Start working on yourself and building yourself up either secretly publicly whatever works for you better (that's gonna happen all while she's cheating on you or if you guys take a break). Start hitting the gym, work on your personality and confidence. working out/playing sports and getting inshape will give you a lot of confidence boost but it will not make your personality stronger. You gotta work on yourself and your personality. establish your principles, what's okay with you and what isn't. Be honest with yourself. Slowly but surely transform yourself into a strong man that is satisfied with himself.
I'l tell you the biggest secret to confidence and strong personality is self-satisfaction. When you reach the point where you are truly fully satisfied of yourself, you have nothing that you hate in yourself anymore, you fixed all your problems and what makes you unhappy or at least are working on it. accepted whatever problems that you have that literally cannot be possibly humanly fixed and learned to live with them. Once you all this happens, the moment you become 'truly' happy with yourself and satisfied... that is when you reach the ULTIMATE confidence and have character. Confidence is literally another word for 'being happy with yourself'. Once you realize that, you will know how to fix it.
in summary, your goal in the 2nd point is to slowly but surely build yourself into a confident happy strong man, and with time you will gain full respect from your wife and maximum attraction. She will decide on her own, to never cheat on you again.
Best of luck, message me if you have any questions.
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