- Those that have experienced more heartbreak because...
- Those that have had more positive relationship experiences because...
- Other...(Please explain)
Most Helpful Girls
What a great question... For starters, I wanna say that people who have experienced both will know the most. But between the heartbroken and the ones who have had positive relationships, I'm going to have to say that people who have experienced more heartbreak know more about love. People who have only had positive experiences with love don't understand that love can also ruin you deeply. I think everyone knows that love is an amazing thing and can make life worth living, but not everyone understands that love will also rip you to shreds in its worst moments. Someone who's had their heart broken understands that love isn't a game and isn't something to be taken for granted.
I feel like that is deeply individual. Some do experience real love fast and for a long time and some go through struggels and need time and heartbreak to find the perfect fit.
Most Helpful Guys
Those that have had more heart break have had more life lessons. It doesn't make them love differently, (if they are like me they love hard, fall hard and break hard), but it teaches them what love isn't and they learn to love themselves more and grow emotionally.