Most Helpful Girl
It’s not wrong, we often gather wisdom and knowledge from others who have shared experiences and different perspectives.
That said, however I think it’s an area you’ve got to tread carefully in given your previous infidelity. A forum or a female friend leaves no room for impropriety but private messaging men on forums can be open to interpretation given previous behaviour. I’m not saying his suspicion or jealousy is good behaviour, but when your spouse has been unfaithful they need to keep their behaviour above board to build the trust back up
Most Helpful Guys
Depends on what it is and your relation to your partner.
There is a reason AA (alcholics anonymous) use strangers in their support system. Not being judged or having to worry about the repercussions sharing might have on your personal life aren't petty considerations.