Would you be more or less offended if your partner cheated on you with a same sex/gender person?

So if you had a husband and he cheated with another man. Or if you have a wife and she cheats with another woman?

Would you be more or less offended if your partner cheated on you with a same sex/gender?
Would you be more or less offended if your partner cheated on you with a same sex/gender?
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11 d ago
Wtf I didn’t post this pic lol

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  • There's really no diffrence to me as cheating means that he has broken my trust and is a sign he no longer values our relationship that he has to seek out someone else. Upon coming into a serious relationship when I'm dating someone, it takes time for me to share myself physically and emotionally with a guy to have sex with him.

    However, if I had to choose one or the other, thinking about it I feel that it's less offensive to me if he cheated on with with someone of the same sex as if he comes to identify as gay I'd come to learn to respect him and who he identifies as. However if he cheated on me with another female, I'd feel betrayed as I'd see it as I'm inadequate in some way to please/satisfy/attract him.

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  • I'd be shocked. The betrayal would feel worse. Next question that arises is if he lied to me about his sexuality, then what else has he lied about? And if he is gay all that time, then what the heck is he doing with me?

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  • My situation is different... my wife is allowed chicks, but I'm clear that I'm not cool with her getting with a chick that has some dude in tow. ... or like one of those chicks that get with chicks to attract dudes.

    Turns out 90% of the time it's just a chick trying to get dudes in the mix.

    My definition of cheating is doing something you wouldn't do in front of your partner... she can eat that pussy in front of me for all I care. If she so much as lets a guy talk to her like a thot though, she's in trouble with me already.

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  • I had a relationship with a woman who called herself straight, but also had special female friends.
    I did not mind. Sometimes I was invited to watch (an audience turned them on) and sometimes I was asked to service both of them, after they had exhausted their sapphic lust.
    She liked to watch me screw her friends.

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    • 10 d ago

      You are one lucky person who enjoyed his life. Free porn in 1900s, it must've been a big deal.

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  • Equally offended. Like, excuse me sir, but if you needed a dick up the ass, why didn’t you say so? We can resolve that right quick.

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  • Cheating is wrong whether it was man, woman, or the family dog. Just because they are another sex doesn't make it any more right.

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  • I would not care if my partner slept with other women. Girl's are sexy. I get that. But I can't be one for her. If that's what she wants it would be a misinterpretation of my patience to assume I would even try. She should seek it elsewhere.

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  • Less. For the simple fact that it wasn't because I lack something as a man. It was because I am a man! Make me fell less at fault. I would still feel bad and break up with her of course.

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  • Wpuldnt matter. Cheating is cheating. The deception/lying is the worst thing, that dosent matter who the third party is

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  • He cheated... I'm gonna be offended over that alone! Gender doesn't matter

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  • I'm more offended they cheated as to who they cheated with.

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  • Less because that would feel less like I just wasn't enough so he found someone else, but like hadn't found and understood himself so far.

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  • More offended. I would think that I wasn't good enough for him, so he had to look for a man.

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  • GaG will add photos they think are appropriate. It is their prerogative.

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  • I don't even consider it cheating if it's with another girl.

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  • Way less. I don't think it ethically should matter, but emotionally to me, it does.

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  • To me the fact matters; not with whom. I'd be the SAME offended.

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  • The same. she gonna end up in friendzone without a fight right on the spot.

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  • i don't care. they cheated on me so they're not gonna be a part of my life anymore.

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  • I would be more offended cause I don't like to be cheated on!

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  • I will get to see lesbian action. I won't care much unless her love drifts away from me.

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  • Equally offended, betrayal is betrayal. Doesn't matter who they betray with.

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  • Cheating is cheating, doesn't matter who it's with.

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  • Like you can't really be offended because they're not exactly competition gender wise XD

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  • As a bi guy, I'd be just as hurt regardless. Cheating is cheating.

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  • More offended... I wouldn't consider that cheating but heresy. And I would never date a heretic

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  • More..

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  • Devastated. My biggest relationship fear

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  • the same sex of course

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    • 11 d ago

      Gross picture. Lol
      I would never marry a bisexual person even if I were a guy.

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    • 10 d ago

      If it's gross to you then you should clarify. Saying the picture is gross is different from you saying that you think the picture is gross. In this case, it looks like you're objectively calling it gross.

      Do you see yourself not becoming homophobic in the future?

    • 10 d ago

      @Sonorous listen it is gross and stop annoying me

  • Equally offended

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  • Idgaf who it is I’d be pissed either way.

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  • THREESOME BABY!

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  • I'll be pissed if he cheated on me at all

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  • terrified haha

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  • Less offended probably.

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  • More offended

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  • They a hoe either way.

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  • About the same.

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  • Less offended

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  • Cheating is cheating. I'd treat it the same way.

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  • Cheating is cheating. I would dump her either way.

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  • Neither. Same level of being offended.

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  • For me personally, I would say less offended.

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  • It wouldn't matter it's still cheating

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  • I don't know as I would be more offended, but is it was with the same sex person, I would be more likely to leave, as it would indicated I was the wrong sex for her.

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  • Actually I should be offended the same way but to be honest, I would offenden less. I guess its homophobe an sexist

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  • Same sex is disgusting and that picture is nasty.

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  • I wouldn’t even be surprised. Most men are closeted dick worshipers.

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  • Probably a little less offended. I'd have some sympathy for them because I'd realize how much they've had to go through with this, but either way cheating isn't okay and I'd be very hurt.

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  • I'd be offended either way but I'd be more offended if it was another man rather than her being with a woman.

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  • Equally offended. Equally offended.

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  • Equally as offended..
    Cheating is cheating

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    • 11 d ago

      *equally offended I meant..

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