Other... True commitment…. love ebbs and waffles but commitment is forever.Your life partner is your best friend, for the man the sexiest lady, for a girl the greatest man. You deserve a man who loves you for you, who respects you and wants the best for you. A man who wants to protect you and provide for you. This is why we should not get into sexual relations without being committed to the relationship. Marriage is commitment. Without commitment it is not truly love.Marriage is unconditional not love. Marriage is not just great sex. When you marry it is for life, no matter what life gives; sickness, health, poverty, wealth, joy or sorrow. No matter what you are committed to each other. There is no excuse for dissolving this union of too people. This takes commitment, you are both committed to make the marriage work at all times in all ages. Looks change, sex changes, but commitment last for a lifetime.
I don't know what that means to answer the question. I am still happy with my wife with whom I've been with over 10 years and can't imagine ever being without her now. But it takes commitment and compromise and working things out together (which is easy with my wife since we make an awesome team). I don't think romantic/sexual desire alone suffices.
Yes. Unconditional, true love, when I can love and protect him without having to be with him- without having to have sex. Dedication, loyalty and unconditional support. I could ofc hope for it to be reciprocated, but this love is unconditional and survives all the challenges. true love isn't easy, it's why it's rare. It can exist one way. Which can be painful in the beginning, but then you learn how to love someone no matter what position they are in (without expectation) because you just love them for being them and want the best for them- with or without you. True love isn't self sacrificing- it's just unwavering, felt through out the entire body, compassionate and patient- no matter what happens. But love to feel it in the heart for someone, in such a way that I have felt it, is worth the harsh experiences and lessons... just to have known it.
Would I ever take him back? no lololol because there needs to be trust and a respect of boundaries. But still love him, just from afar.
and when I say reciprocated, I mean commitment- marriage level- before sex.
Yes I strongly believe it exists, it occurs and that it’s felt. 😊
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No such thing.Women don't know what they want. Even when married. They will mess up your life when a guy shows them love and provides for them.
I'm sure it exists, but finding it is easier said than done. Most people just wind up settling, or confusing lust for love instead.
Despite the multiple heartbreaks I've had and always ending up single, I believe in true love and that there is someone out there who will choose to love me even with my messed up personality.
It requires two sane individuasl who are both able to give and receive love. So it's quite rare. But it exists.
Not between woman and man , no , the genders are utterly different , with opposite and often , conflicting needs , wants and interests. Unconditional love is movie sold BS , everyone has their flaws , even if they think they are perfect.
Like I believe in Santa Claus, God, Easter Bunny, Tooth fairy, my personal guardian angel, Mark Zuckerberg, the mass media & TV Stations, in ghosts and in marriage.
I believe in love, but what exactly is 'true love'? It's possible to feel great love and affection for more than one person over your lifetime.
Not exactly. Or doesn't matter much what your partner says -- their behaviour is much more important.
I think you know love in an instant but true love you have to look back on over many years to realise how much love has engulfed you
I don't need to believe, I feel it. I feel the Oxytocin dosage rising within me whenever I think about her.
Yes I do. If know know God, then you know what love is.
@Depressionn You can laugh all you want, but it's true.
Happened to me, and I'm sure it happens to lots of lucky couples!
Experienced it before, looking to get back there again.
I have had true love onceI know it existsBut I managed to ruin it.
All human relationship are self desired and egocentric.
Cause I Have Found True Love In my Own world of love
Yes I do. I love my boyfriend, he’s perfect for me.
No, true love exists in movies and romantic novels. In reality it is super rare.
I do believe in it, but I’m having a hard time believing that I will find mine
I once believed until i realize that it never exist
Nah it's lust and fascination and excitement. Nothing true about it
Nah love is for fools
I don't believe in true love
I want to.
Yeah, but its very rare.
Yes, I do. My parents are a good example of this.
No not really.
i love you savanna since the day i saw you 😥 please love me back
I do believe in true love.
Depends what you mean by "true love"
True has been reduced to an intensifier
Seems that way
I do ❣️♥️
I don't know what that is.
I hope you find someone you can show you and may you be happy with him for a long time to come.
Yes but not without sex :P
Joker you’re wrong and you know it
true love is real but with real people
No I do not
Love is real. But it isn't true.
Yes but it takes time during the relationship.
I believe in love.
I belived so badly nut its startin to vanish
I used to
Yeah just not worth finding
Maybe one day
Yes l do
Why not true solipsism?
Yes, of course!
No, feminism ruined it
That is an excellent question... Umm.. Yeahhh.. next question? But on a more serious note. I hope so, but I also lose more hope every day...
I will define true love as the emotional connection between two intelligent people who understand each other more than trying to change each other. So yes! True love exist!
Nope. It's not real. Love is just a fancy word for primal urges. It's to get people to have sex with the best looking people & produce the best looking kids.
Nope, absolutely not!
Hang in there man, one experience with one girl shouldn't change your whole belief system
I no longer believe in true love.
Hang in there, one guy who did you wrong shouldn't change the way you look at 'love'
@Uru_DS all guys are same.. I'm done. I'm tired.
I'm done, I'm tired is exactly how I feel
@Miss_Savanna_Dry all guys I knew wants to get into my pants.. and nice guys they are way more devil, they have hidden agenda, try to manipulate you later on ditch you like a trash.
Ladies, if you don't mind me asking how many guys have you been with? And how many guys do you know? A range?If you don't want to reveal that think about where I'm going with this, don't you think it's a bit close minded and you're jumping to conclusions?
You're both way too young to be saying this, and as a man I don't think I'm like that and neither are a lot others. Don't you for a moment think that possibly it's just an age factor?
@Uru_DS I have met so many guys!!! They are all same!
Men are stupid, but we're also quick learners. The guys you were dumb enough to lose you will learn eventually and do everything to hold on to their SO later on in life.
@Uru_DS They are all are playboy.
And at age 24 what really do you expect? A serious relationship? You need to be more open minded and intelligent to be able to know what a guy is looking for because frankly if you don't give him what he wants he'll just move on, your thing is yours to give. Either make them work or let it be known you're not looking to fool around...
You want me to honest? A Playboy can only play if you let him. So stop sleeping with guys before you get to know them well. Then maybe you won't be 'played' again. You can't keep giving him all he wants, cause he's getting it and for now I'm sorry to say everyone is doing stuff more important than relationships so you should also focus on your future? Forget about this for a while?
@Uru_DS oh. So if they want nudes, I should give. ? That's what you mean?
What the fuck? No. How in hell did you infer that from what I just said? Read it again cause that's not what I meant.And did you read it? Or you're just saying stuff?No by the way, don't send nudes. Don't ever if you don't want to, and if you do know not expect true love from a guy asking for nudes in the first week of knowing you.
If you do, know **
@Uru_DS the guy that I really liked made me believed that true love exist, he said he would love her forever. He even showed me sign that am his special and later on, he dump me over his fucking new Instagram bitch! Imagine we both met since 5 years ago? And we kept in touch almost every single day and talked for hours? Do you know how much pain Im dealing that he shoo me away?
Well I'm never gonna know because I'm way too busy with making a career for myself so 'love' doesn't even come into my mind if I meet a girl.Before I try to understand you better, what's your age and did he ever say he's your boyfriend or he's exclusively dating only you? Given that you guys were together did the topic of marriage ever come up? And guys know how to make you feel special, don't worry about that. Most of us will do anything we can to get what we want, good thing is that when the thing we want is you, we will show it. Did he introduce you to his mom? No.
And saying he 'shoo you away' is really bad for your self esteem, don't ever say that.
@Uru_DS we talked about everything, he talked about him and even his families. I knew his family. And we both 23
So you met them? Like dinners and family trips kinda knew them or met them once maybe twice?
@Uru_DS wth r u talking about. Ofc not. We both in diff country..
I can't even. Dude, get over it. He can't be that good that he made you fall crazy in love from that far being how he is. Stop overreacting and you're only 23, you're supposed to be having fun, making your career , seeing places, meeting new people and discovering the world. Get off this app, get off your ass and get over him. If you can't, you're lying to yourself. Go hang out with your friends, if you can't take care of yourself time will. You're a woman, you're special and you're capable of doing great things, use this to motivate yourself and never look back. Don't let this dude who doesn't care about you ruin your present or your future. The pain you're feeling is in your head, throw it out.
@Uru_DS You think it's easy to do this? You never know how I feel right now.
Yeah damn right it's easy, in fact it's so easy that after all that I've said to you I don't seem to be making any progress cause you're so in over your head about this guy which is impossible for me comprehend. So I shall politely accept my failure to help you because you don't want to be helped and quite frankly you're really very dumb. Blind to see the bigger picture and fixated on a guy who wasn't even interested evidently. Sorry to pop your bubble but I will never understand this the same way you won't understand the real hardships in life. I hope you look back at this when you're a grown mature women and realise how stupid you were.
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