Ladies, what would you do if you got pregnant but your boyfriend wasn't happy about it? (Page 2)
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I would leave the guy. If I got pregnant and he wanted nothing to do with the baby why would I subject myself and the pregnancy to that kind of treatment? It's not healthy for the expectant mother or child.
Why not get a vasectomy? Then you dont need to worry.
In your senario, i can't imagine it being healthy for the kid or the relationship. Separating would be best
Ideal would I be to talk about it before it happens. We talked about kids and we similar views we both don't want to have kids. Please don’t keep your opinion about kids in the dark for two years. Talk about it and communicate your wishes
I wouldn't make a baby with someone like that in the first place... and if a surprise happens I would make it clear that he doesn't have to stay in my life because of the child and its up to him if he wants to be a parent with me or not
I would RUN in the opposite direction. If I had a child, that child’s wellbeing would now become my ultimate concern so I would want to have a chance of finding a relationship with a man who could be a positive father figure to my child.
I wasn't happy when I was pregnant. Even after he was born. 5 years layer I couldn't imagine my life with out that little shit and if probably kill someone over him. Once he/she is here, you'll be hooked. Don't worry.
I would stay with him of course even if he wasn't happy.
I think my boyfriend would be happy about it, but I wouldn't do anything drastic if he wasn't. I assume once I had the baby he would be pretty happy even though he was not happy about the pregnancy.
Wow, that sucks. I only know that I wouldn't like to force the paternity on him, it would be painful to know that my child has a dad that doesn't want to be there. If he wants me to abort I suppose I'll ditch him and raise the kid by myself.
Just let him no that its ok... cuzz its not his anywway
Omg you've been cheating on me? Who was it was it the milk man again?
I’d tell them to kick rocks and go somewhere else if they’re going to act that way
So your answer is stop being a baby and spend the next 18 years of your life dedicated to something you never wanted?
No my answer is exactly what I said... which is to leave if you feel that way.
I don’t believe in forcing people into being parents.
If he's not sure even after given some time to think about it, I'd dump his ass.
Accept it and move forward. He doesn’t need to stick around.
I’d still keep the baby. There’s always the door if he doesn’t want to be involved. It’ll be his own loss, really. But I’d keep my child. I have bad fertility and it may be my only chance
I don’t care if he’s happy with it or not, I wouldn’t be happy and I’ll take care of it.
tell him he should've thought about that before he shagged me ass
I already plan to get an abortion if I somehow get pregnant.
I would tell him that I'm keeping it whether he stays with me or not.
No comment cuz it will be harsh but good luck in what ever you decide 👍
I'd have the baby anyways to hell with him. I wouldn't date someone like that in the first place though.
This may sound harsh, but if you don't want a child, don't make one..