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Man... I'm honestly sorry this is happening... but why you would ever put up with repeated cheating is so far beyond me... That I don't really even know how to begin to tell you.Buddy. Why are you allowing yourself to be treated this way. She doesn't "want you" in the same way you want her. You want a loving relationship. She CLEARLY doesn't give a shit about you.For fuck sakes man. And are you hypothetically "thinking" of having kids WITH her? (In which case. Don't. But get your head checked.) Or are you saying that you've already got kids and that she wants them (as part of the package of being with you)?So I'm sorry, but she doesn't want to be with you. Despite what she says.I'm more just blown away by the fact that you're putting up with this. What in the world. Makes you think that she is going to change. If it's repeatedly... Then it is actually quite dumb. Quite dumb indeed to think that she is telling the truth the 7th time when you've been in this spot getting these assurances and apologies (I'm assuming), and "I'll never do it again"... Now if you fall for that once... Ok... You're in love. But common man a second or third or God knows how many times we're talking about here? Break up with her and find someone willing to be loyal to you like you are to them. You deserve better than this. EVERYONE deserves better than this. What the hell HAPPENED to you man? Where's your pride? Your self respect? Your anger? Your disgust?
I guess I love her so much I'm willing to forgive her and Everytime she's nice to me and wants to start over I melt. We did end up having twins together and going through the court for visitation. See has a restraining order against me but wants to be here during the visits and as soon as I say no she reports me for violation for contacting her after she has already promised to amend herself from it. Any way for me to cope with it all I guess I'm just asking for third party advise. So ty for replying I really needed it bud. Warmest wishes
The question should be why would you want to stay with her.
Thank you I think I needed to hear that she is what's considered a gaslighter Google it
The question has to be asked what made her start taking this course of action/cheating?There is Always two sides to any story.
Does not compute. Sounds like she wants you to raise and pay for her kids.
Bi polar woman move on
Leave. But be careful.
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