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There are several reasons women feel insecure...She doesn't feel good about herself. She might not feel smart enough, pretty enough or have a good enough personality. She didn't get a lot of attention when she was a child or compliments from her parents.Both of these require therapy to work through.The man she is with doesn't give her normal husband attention. She's secure in herself but left alone a lot or isn't given enough normal attention after they get married.A husband might be a bit of a flirt and actually gives other women more attention that her. He might not ever cross the line to cheating but he leaves his wife worrying about what if.A husband spends more time on porn than actually having sex with his wife. A husband disappears a lot by himself. He might be totally innocent but he takes off without his wife knowing where he is leaving her insecure. I'm talking more than just a few hours here and there.
I don’t really get jealous, I get insecure. Am I pretty enough? Am I smart enough? But mostly does he really want me? Am I bothering him?I need constant reassurance. If I’m not getting in I start feeling insecure. Reassurance meaning, not compliments, gifts etc but I need to feel it from him. I need to feel the security of the relationships.
I simply dont tolerate it.Jealousy is fear. Fear that what you deem as yours. Is being threatened in some way.Problem is. I dont belong to anyone. Not even a partner. And I won't tolerate anyone being possessive of me.Far as people still being insecure after marriage.Well, the reality is. Marriage doesn't change anything. Its simply an agreement dressed up in a ceremony.If you're insecure before. You'll be insecure afterward. Even though someone has agreed to partner with you.Because insecurity comes from you. An incompleteness, an empty space within you. That you are trying to fill with another person. Depending on their input and love to build you up. And make up for the love you dont have for yourself.The fear comes from knowing that that input and love is subjective to anothers will. Anothers choices.Someday it might go. Or give itself to another.Dependency makes you a continuous victim.
Dealing with jealousy is a lot simpler than people put it out to be. You just need to speak up and let it be known, the longer you keep it, in the more it infects your mind and causes you to think things that are way too far outside of the box and can ruin your relationship. So in short just talk to your partner and let them know what your feeling and your reasons that cause that and if they dont respond in a good manner and just get defensive or aggressive then you probably shouldn't be with them. And 9 times out of 10 its them not you. Know your worth and make sure your partner does too
If we were like men, you’d understand. Drooling over every hot guy we see 🤤 😍 .. ever seen a girl stick her head out of a car watching a guy? Yeah no. That just happened to me.. bet he’s married too! That’s just one example of a million The end.
Everyone has their own insecurities, big or small. Why would you expect hers to vanish just because you got married?You deal with jealousy by showing her every day how much you love her, how she's the only one for you and, no matter what, you never... ever... cheat. Simple.
Cuz they know other women delight in poaching another's man. They're just sure some bimbo will seduce you away. And the better looking you are and richer more powerful, the greater chance there is of that happening. It's called pre-selection - the logic is if you're good enough to be with her, then you must be a catch, and other women will approach and proposition you. DAMHIKSingle, divorced? It's crickets.
I honestly think that if someone is extremely jealous and insecure in a relationship, it's a sign they don't trust you, and if they don't trust you, the last thing they should've done is marry you. I will never understand why people choose to stay with people they don't trust and suspect will cheat on them. Why?
Could it be because a number of men give them this reason to be insecure?Could it be because their guy has a history of cheating and that even after marriage, women will never get rid of that suspicion that the cheating husband may have yet another affair?Could it be that the guy just married her for her money and will use most of it for his own pleasure and benefit after marriage?Those are only 3 examples of possible causes for feeling insecure after marriage.
I don't really get that jealous. I understand that other girls look nice, I appreciate how they look and I often look myself. He knows that if he ever wanted to do something with another girl he can as long as I'm involved in some way. So i don't get jealous because I'm just as interested as he is.
Firstly there sholud not be a jealous in relationship because relationship ia nothing but knowing each other... if does not happens this is only happens they can't able to trust you as they didn't understand you properly... in this scenario we can do onething play rapid fire on which they are feeling insecure share your opinions on that accordingly
Hard to tell, probably had some bad experiences at some point, but jealousy will only drive others away, they have to get past it and trust their partner
Why's Ariana snooping on that guy's phone screen?Regarding the question though, getting married doesn't erase all the feeling and experience a they've had with other girls in the past
Ariana grande is legitimately The only singer I do not like and I listen to all kinds of music from the 1950s to present.
She is just an irritating donut licking self-entitled human being.
Yeah but she hot doe
If you like people who look 12
Maybe I do
He's an interesting looking fellow but he does not look 12.
Interesting looking fellow?😅 lol
Am a very jealous lover, I get jealous easily in a relationship so if I wanna get married, my husband need to understand the fact that am a jealous lover and he wouldn't do anything to make me jealous
Insecurity is a personal problem and nobody should be in a relationship who has it.
Knowing how jealous I could be sometimes I avoid getting to mentally/emotionally invested in someone if the feeling is not reciprocated
women will be insecure not matter what, its part of their nature.
I'm not the jealous type. I actually get insecure. I'm married and I'm insecure.
Pluck your twig and berries off so she knows for sure you are true
They're worried you'll cheatJust like we're worried, they'll cheatThat's why monogamy is so tough
Dont make your woman jelous then. Actually I would lose the interest in him, if he makes jelous. Dont gibe her reasons to be jelous.
It's all an act to get you to obey. Nothing will ever be good enough for them. Don't ever marry.
Because marriage isn't bulletproof and men are not tied down by anything.
Underlying anxiety, depression and insecurities
it happens to the best of us
Because I am an idoit
Because too many men cheat.
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