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Narcissist at the end of the day are people too with feelings, thoughts and emotions of their own. They just choose to behave the way they do because its easier. Of course they fall in love. But falling in love is not LOVE. To love is a choice. To not love is also a choice. Narcissist falls in love like every other human being. But because their Narcissist, Narcissist choose NOT to love anyone else but themselves. In fact, its all just ego. Many don't even love themselves because they either forsake love or just don't know what love is.
But love is not a choice.. i mean people just fall in love.. They Don't choose to fall in love.. but you wanna say narcissist choose whom they love or whom they Don't love! They have a choice!
Love is very much a choice. People just choose not to take responsibility for their actions or be accountable and then blame others poor choices they made. You can choose not to fall in love because it's actually been proven to be true. Falling in love is it simply hormones infatuation it's nothing else. It's best not to make excuses for people let alone yourself. Because that's like saying people can't help who they choose to rape and they can't help who they choose to Rob.
Mature adults knows this, and that's why they struggle Less in those areas.
I kind of doubt it based on what I've read on this subject. At least it's not the type of thing I'd call "love", since it seems based more on desire/power/dominance/winning instead of genuinely caring about the other person.
It might be a spectrum though. Narcissism isn't a black and white thing so much as a spectrum where certain people having more narcissistic tendencies than others (although those diagnosed with NPD seem to be extremely high on the scale). Perhaps the ones who aren't so extreme this way might be capable of caring for others to some degree.
[...] [with] certain people having more narcissistic tendencies than others [...]
Maybe you are right... narcissist have lots of shades in their mind and feelings..
Nope they are biologically incapable of actual love. They see their partner as a possession, a resource. Nothing more.
Well he'd go with the girl but he'd be thinking of himself.
So he will use the girl as a scapegoat?
I don't think they fall in love.
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