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I don't think love is ever equal. How do you even measure that? One side will always love the other more, and that's okay. Because it doesn't matter who loves who the most. What matters is you love each other and have chosen to join each other on the journey called life. And love grows everyday if you let it. You might not see it or feel the difference from one day to the next. But it will be revealed over time. So many people of today chase the high of being in love, and when they snap out of their rosy bubble and see their partner for who they really are they just leave and seek the same high all over again. They will never experience a deeper, more mature love for someone before they start accepting their partner and go through the hardships a relationship can bring.
This you can't even check.. because no one knows what exactly is going on with the mind and heart of the other and sometimes the people can't even express all things they feel 😊 so to say someone loves more or less is not correct because this has no any proof or reason to say it even
How do you know how much he loves you? You are aware of every thought that you have about your partner and every little thing that you do to try to make their life better. Are you aware of every thought he has about you? Are you aware of all the little things that he may do that go unnoticed? Of course not.Aside from that issue, the larger perspective is to ask why this is important. In a relationship, the real questions are1. Are you getting most of your needs satisfied by your partner? and2. Are you paying an excessive price to get those needs met?Aren't those the REALLY important questions?
The love can never be 100% equal but you need to know you love each other. There are so many ways for people to show their partner they love them. It’s hard for some girls or guys to show their love but they can make it known. If one side or both sides are not in love they shouldn’t be in that relationship. The side not in love should end it even if they don’t want to hurt others. They need to think about themselves first in this situation. If someone isn’t in love they’ll be in an unhappy relationship.
No you can't measure true love in those terms.
Love is close to worthless by itself. It’s a word people use to manipulate.If I say i love you it can mean anything from ‘I love what you do for me & that I don’t have to do much’ or ‘I am loyal 100% and want the best for you’. Or anythjng in between.Love always has conditions too. Even when people say it doesn’t.Smart people make sure they spell out what they want from their partner & the partner does the same. Fools just feel warm & fuzzy and hope the other person isn’t selfish.Anyhow when I was a teen I felt in love BUT looking back as an adult that’s not what it was. It was just infatuation/obsession.
No. It's not always unequal, but often if one partner feels like more valuable part of the relationship. It's not always about appearance because people pick each other mostly on the same attractiveness level, but about being more cunning or having less scruples.
No not even in friendship i think im more of a friend to my friends its seems they call on me for help when they need it and for me i feel i can figure it all out .. with a relationship. Your together so it means its true you both like or love each other and i dont know if it sould be e equal i think in some things you want peeks and valleys so the other person can feel the depth of itb
Yes it happens but it shouldn't be so as it starts controlling your actions. The one who loves more starts putting in more efforts into the relationship while the other one may start taking it for granted. A relationship works out best when BOTH of them love each other EQUALLY.
It must be... not for the greater good... but for the struggle that will make each one more to strive in their passion for one another... but keep in mind this does not necessarily mean it applies to one sex more than the other.. they will equally trade places
Yes, I think its ok tooRelationships ebb and flow. Sometimes it will be equal, sometimes it will be unequal, and sometimes Love seems to vanish all together. Just because love may be unequal doesn't mean it isn't worth showing all the love you can. its up to the person who loves less, to acknowledge the love of the other person and show him or her appreciation.
Not exactly. Love shouldn't be measured like you measure amount of lbs. Love is different for everyone. You have to decide how much love you need and or want
I feel like 9 times out of 10 it's rushed that's why it feels unequal, finding out flaws in someone after your romantically involved tends to lead to that in my opinion
Very good point, I feel the same. When people get into a committed relationship too fast they might feel different about the person after learning new things about them. I’ve made that decision so I know how it feels.
being In love with someone who you feel is only pretending to love you (or unaware that what they feel for you isn’t love) is painful. But I would love him anyway. You don’t have to be in a relationship with someone to love them, and I love my ex as a person now that’s a I want the best for. The love between us (I think) was always unequal but it’s okay. It was a pleasure to give that to somebody else and hopefully I helped him in some way
In many cases, yes! I was in college with a clear feminist who argued that a man should always love the woman more, and I find my stepfather makes far more effort in his gifts to my mother than she does (I’m surprised he still bothers) 😅🤷🏻♂️
Just in different ways some people show it more than others
Personally I find guys to be way less affectionate than girls.
Some of them are. However My boyfriend is less affectionate than me but I am also extremely affectionate but I think we might balance each other out a bit. It can be annoying at times though if we’re on different pages
reminds me of thishttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3ouolMALIM
Or the guy loves the girl more than the girl loves him. As in my case from my ex. Yeah it happens it sucks.
not always but you can never be 100% certain tho cause everyone is different
No, not always. The expression of the love usually is though.
I think so. It would have to be love at first sight for both in order to be equal in an eventual relationship.
Honestly yes I do. Maybe not every relationship but most.
You'd hope so but lots of bad relationships aren't like that Sort of a giver and a taker dynamic.
You can't tell who loves the other person more because you can't know what's in the heart of people. But I believe that in every relationship, one of the partners makes most efforts for the relationship to work.
Yes I do a girl could never love me as much as I love her because how a autistic loves and a neurotypical loves is really different
It SHOULD be equal. If its not than your with the wrong person
Sometimes. Not always.
I do yes I believe we love each other in different ways
The majority of the times, yes.
Yes, that's actually how it is
Yeah seems so.
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