If my partner said "Hey I need to have sex with this guy who I don't love, don't like or don't care about in order for us to get 10 million dollars I would say:
Can you stop at the store on the way home, we are out of eggs and milk! :+)-
Hell yes, then tell him immediately and go on an amazing vacation with him.
I think my boyfriend, and most of my ex's from previous relationships, would slap me if I told them I turned down ten million dollars to remain "loyal" to them. If anything, fucking another guy and then spending a load of cash on my current boyfriend is as loyal as anything, at least I'm sure they'd say the same.
To clarify, if I thought my partner at the time would legitimately be offended by me saying yes to this opportunity, I wouldn't do it if I intended to spend the rest of my life with them, but if I thought they were just being overly protective and jealous and couldn't understand the fact that I can have sex one time with another person to make us ten million dollars, then we probably wouldn't work out anyway just because we have different views on life.
Let me offer this, as well... I'd be thrilled if my boyfriend had sex with another woman for ten million dollars if he came back and told me and then offered to take me on vacation or something. Honestly? I wouldn't even expect that. I'd be thrilled that he managed to make himself ten million dollars, in general, as I think I'd personally feel selfish if I told him that our relationship was worth more than ten million dollars. Who am I to limit my partners' financial growth and career/business aspirations? There's a very good chance, based on probability/statistics alone, that we aren't going to be together for the rest of our lives, anyway, so how can I tell him to pass up ten million dollars now for something that isn't guaranteed to last for any given amount of time anyway?
Yeah... I don't care if people think I'm a slut or just being greedy, but I think it's immoral to hold this against someone, especially if they come back to you honestly presenting the situation and offer to split the money, or at least to spend some of if on you doing something nice together.
I'm really torn. I can't let someone touch me without trust, so it couldn't just be some stranger or fling. And then if I already have trust and then there's sex, what if I end up developing feelings or some bullshit.
Or what if it's a social experiment of a killer and he kills me because I said yes.
Or my heart would be totally crushed if the person I loved said yes. Fucking devastated man.
I know that's life changing-- that amount of money-- but I don't know if I could come back from that.
You know what, you're probably right. And right now I kind of wish I didn't.
I can see that... and I've already been ditched when I was pregnant.. so from an evolutionary perspective, I won't make the same mistakes again.
That's a lot of "if's". Let's add that you won't be killed, he's disease free, there's no danger, blah, blah, blah. It's simply sex with a stranger who lays a suitcase with $10 million dollars in front of you and says "fuck me and that's all yours, no strings attach, we'll never talk or meet again". Now tell me you and your boyfriend can't "come back" from that for ten million bucks. I realize many people say "oh, it's not the amount of money"... but I'm not buying that. It's about the money. You wouldn't do it for $10 or $100 or $1,000, I'll buy that. But 10 Million?
I love you post. I laughed hard a s a fuck
@Barbarian8 Do you think it's true? I do. LOL I'd like to see someone, especially a woman, who says "Oh, I'd never do that", standing there with her boyfriend, the stranger and a duffel bag full of money. The boyfriend looks over and says..."umm, sweetie... ? " Now if it were a woman offering the boyfriend $10 million, his response would be "honey, wait outside please" . :)
For we I would not do it for certain. Because dignity is above everything
@Barbarian8 It's nice to think so.
It is a lot of ifs. It be like selling my soul. That is a lot of money, I just hate the idea. Luckily I'd never have to encounter this situation.
Hhhh just make your mind right away and you will be focused on Everything
And THAT'S the difference between most men and most women, I think. Men don't look at it as "selling your soul" at all. They look at it as... are you kidding me? One time sex for 10 million bucks? Where do I sign up? Women romanticize it and think it will haunt them forever till the day they die. Maybe it would for a few, but it's not like you had to KILL an innocent person or something! It's... just... sex !
Dudette. I have said that Dignity is more important than billions and this my opinion and I stick to it. Regarding sex. It is another topic I think where I find women hard to deal. lol
Eh, it is what it is.
@loveslongnails What i find comical is these same women have probably slept with multiple guys already. The only thing that makes this a "betrayal" of sorts is they're in a relationship now. And the odds say it's not going to last forever lol. You invest it wisely and what not 10 million can last you forever. Lol
@ChiTown33 So you would do it for the 10 million?
That's true, most PEOPLE have slept with multiple partners already. If they've had a few committed relationships, they have probably had a few partners. And since the odds are against a relationship lasting, we should just choose the money?
I would do it for the money. I would also expect her to do it for the money with another guy given the oprion. 10 million isn't an everyday number. BUT! I would tell her! I wouldn't just do it without her knowledge. And if she wanted to leave me (which 50% of the women agree with me here) then she could. But i will tell you this they way i see it with 10 mill neither of us would ever have to work again. I could make it up to her the rest of my life. I remember taking a personal finance course in college and i remember the instructor saying how finances are the leading cause of divorce. And not just lack of money, time spenr apart.
Fair point.
Except the never having to work again part... I'd still be worried that I'd need to work. Just to be on the safe side.
We are similar in our thinking there. I guess i look at it like this take 2 million and buy a nice house maybe new cars maybe some toys. Go on a vacation and invest the other 8 mill. That'd still earn you 500k annually at least.
If you wanted to work you could. And maybe there aren't any guarantees in life. But it doesn't get much more guaranteed than that.
Me: babe I'm going to cheat on you
Her: wtf no !
Me: it's for 10 mill
Her: can I watch?
Ha ha ha
Forgiveness would come awfully quickly once I gave them 5 million dollars :)
You cheated on me? Oh 5 million dollars... it's all good! LOL
I am with ya. So many people are going about this the wrong way. Cheating for a large sum of life changing money is much different then cheating because they fell in love with someone else!
I don't care. I'd want him to choose no.
@Juxtapose I don't know if I could handle it. Maybe if he told me ahead of time and I could try to process that it was going to happen.
I don't know. I don't physically think I could go through with it unless I drugged myself and had no memory of it.
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No, lol I'd just ask my partner about the situation 🤣🤣 knowing him he'd probably be all business like and super protective.
Make sure I ask for a contract with certain things on it to make sure it's safe. Then be like, go ahead. Pretend I cheated on him then say "Yay! We're 10 million richer due to a dumbass." 💀💀😆😆
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I'd do same lol
Then you don't love your partner.
@ThisDudeHere Got nothing to do with love dude!
@katiesmuff cheating has everything to do with love. Or, more precisely, the lack thereof.
@ThisDudeHere We each have our own opinions and what we each can live with along with those close too us! Sex is really a very small part of real love!
@ThisDudeHere I disagree lol, considering the fact we discuss everything. Our relationship is closer than ever, obviously if he said no I wouldn't do it. But I doubt he would because that's a lot of money and if we did it safely, I mean, what does it matter?
I don't care if he wants to sleep with someone else on a regular day. He just has to let me know and be safe. He's never done it but the option is there. Which makes cheating kinda dumb tbh lol. We're both understanding/open minded. We work as a unit. I think that shows love in it's best form for us.
Yes, thats it!
Very well salid
I would discuss with my partner first because if I'm in a committed relationship be would be benefiting with the 10 million too. We will decide together
@Appetite depends on how you look at it.
Whoever is paying me still got me to be with them for 10million whilst being in a relationship with someone else. Might not be "Cheating" in terms of doing it behind his back but it's not exactly not cheating either. Especially when most couples who are not in an open relationship that would have consented would always have it at the back of their minds and still be uncomfortable knowing what happened.
No, I don't think I could sell away my morals like that or hurt someone I cared about.
Sameeeeee ๐
If I really love someone, there is no price in the world capable of making me betray their trust
Wonderful answer
@TonyMetal_86 thanks! ๐
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I wouldn't because I don't need money - God says in the bible that if you seek God - He will give you everything you need.
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I wanna say "no", but honestly, I'm not sure if I could turn down $10m if the offer were actually on the table, as that could really advance my life purpose and allow me to do a lot of good in the world. But it would mean doing something I consider to be abhorrent along the way, so it's that age old question of "do the ends justify the means?" And I don't know, if I started pampering my girlfriend, deep down I'd know it's funded by "blood money" essentially. The guilt would probably catch up on me. If she's like, the love of my life, I think I'd turn the money down and just try to earn it through hard graft instead. If it's a girl I'm just casually involved with while waiting for something better to come along, then I'd probably take the money and run tbh lol
Exactly
Come to think of it, I think I'd rather be happy with a woman I love, rather than be a lonely millionaire living alone in some cold empty mansion, unloved and unwanted coz he sold his soul for a cash injection. On that basis I would turn the money down. And anyway, I believe I'm smart and resourceful enough to make something approaching this sum of money through entrepreneurship, etc. It's like people who win the lottery, they spend it all coz they know deep down they didn't "earn" it. Their self image isn't ready to be rich. I think I'd prefer the journey of becoming the person who DESERVES to make $10m, rather than be given it outright.
Okay, my final answer is "no". I can feel the temptation to cross to the "dark side", but I would bite my tongue and stick to my morals.
Tom Tom Tom 10 million dollars! How many people could you HELP live a better life? I would hate to see you say no and she break your heart... that would be terrible. But I respect your decision.
I get that. It's just I know how it feels to be cheated on, and I resolved to myself I'd never put someone else on the receiving end of that experience as a result. I can do plenty of good in the world without compromising my values. That's how evil creeps in; one compromised value at a time. I'lld do like Frank Sinatra and Do It My Way ;) appreciate the interesting discussion though, this was a real thinker!
I know how it feels to be cheated on too and if she did it for 10 million dollars and not because she wants some other's guys cock then I am not too sure I would feel bad. It's a lot of money man. I would put it up there with her cheating on me with another woman... I could give a shit... deal me in on the action sweet heart! Again, I respect your opinion. It's a tough question for sure.
Yeah I can see some merit in viewing it that way. But even if I did view it in those terms, part of me would question whether I'm only telling myself what I need to hear in order to justify my actions. It would take a lot of mental gymnastics on my part to be okay with it, which is usually a sign I've lost my way.
Now, if I approached my girlfriend about this topic beforehand, and she agreed to it and we split the money in half... then in my mind that's basically her giving me a "free pass" so we can enjoy the spoils of victory together lol. But a "free pass" I consider different from "cheating", so I don't think this would pass the terms and conditions of your indecent proposal haha
I made sure it was 10 million so you could spend a good amount on therapy ! HA
ha! touche!
I would hate myself if I did such a thing... But I could do great things with that money and solve a lot of world problems... in exchange for breaking someone heart and becoming the scum of the earth. I don't want to be that person and a cheater is disgusting. Plus at the end of the day greed is a sin. So I'll say no I won't cheat.
I think many women are assuming you will be breaking some guys heart and I just don't think that is the case. You are cheating for money not someone else's love.
But what if the two people involved in the relationship love each other? Wouldn't it crush the person to know that their partner cheated on them for money over their love?
10 million dollars is not just money... I think more people would be pissed if they turned the money down.
Give him half the money and it won't hurt so bad!
Iโm cheating and Iโm not telling. Iโm also gonna take my money and go and live happily ever after with my son and family rn. I wouldnโt want to risk being loved for only money or getting used itโs happened to me before and Iโve kind of learned never to trust nobody when you can do something for them and just donโt do period.
So are you staying with your partner but not telling him you cheated or where you got the money?
I just said Iโm not telling and im gonna go with people who will always ๐ฏ love me fuck a man lol thatโs my life goals I really want to be rich and live with my fam and than date as a rich woman ^.^.
So you are breaking up with your partner after you cheat on him for the money? Just trying to get clear here!
Yes ๐ฏ but if Iโm honest I would have one hundred percent did it eventually anyways I am not planning on ever staying with someone long term and honestly getting rich would spend the process of a breakup up for me
Oh gotcha! Okay well thanks for the comment! Appreciate the honesty!
Why would it be evil? ๐ I can choose to not date anyone long term and being honest about it isnโt evil and where did you see me mention that and I have a son on my own I can take my son anywhere if I were to have a boyfriend there would be no kid between us I got my child already and donโt want anymore
This is an easy one - NEVER!! Never ever!!!
My girlfriend - and the three little gifts she has given me who call me "Daddy" - is the center of my universe. She makes me happier than I have ever been. She makes me feel a thousand feet tall. She makes me feel like a man. When I am stressed or worried she will, without saying a word, just hold my hand or give me a hug. When I get on my high horse - and I do that a lot - my girlfriend does not yell or shout or argue. She just rolls her eyes, kisses me on the cheek and smiles at me.
Give me 10 million dollars without her and I would be the poorest rich man on Earth. No one, nothing, could ever mean more to me. I love her with all my heart and no amount of money could ever replace her.
And people think love doesn't exist. That sounds beautiful.
That's awesome. That sounds really nice.
The odds today is that you will break up, married or not. So may as well get paid well in advance for it happening. Sometimes you just have to be proactive. Show me the money!!
That's a pretty crappy and bleak attitude to have. God have mercy on whoever ends up with you.
@ThisDudeHere Are you refuting my comment that the odds today of people staying together for the long term is bleak? Statistics don't lie my friend.
Statistics also make it clear that 100% of people always die at some point in their life - doesn't mean your whole life has to revolve around death.
@ThisDudeHere We're not talking about giving up $10 mil to die, we are talking about losing $10 mil to live a better life than struggling with guys who may dump you in a month or two.
And if he wouldn't cheat on you? How can you positively know he would unless you think poorly of literally everyone? With that kind of attitude, you're basically asking to be cheated on and don't deserve someone who'd actually trully love you and would stay loyal.
@ThisDudeHere Do you even know what this thread is about? Obviously you are taking things here way too seriously, like you think any of this would actually happen. But if it was real there would be a line wanting to collect that would make the line of people trying to get into the US look like a singles night out at the local greasy spoon. People marry for a lot less, so $10 mill to split up would be on par.
I'm still single but if I happened to have a girl, then no, wouldn't cheat. Because after all, all those dollar bills won't be able to tell you "I love you" or speak anything for that matter. You can't listen to money, you can't talk with it, you can't laugh with it. If you happen to be stranded with it somewhere, you can't do anything with it at all.
Sure you can buy a gold digger with it but then again, that digger is definitely gonna go in search of greener pastures once you run out.
The choice is obvious I think. No cheating on a person who invests their emotions in you. Period.😊
Because , my partner would be a fool to not understand that this cheating I DECIDED to take on was beneficial for both of us and Our children and the children of our children. I think not only I would cheat but dump him anyway if he was irritated about this. The right partner would get it.
I hear ya on that!
I think it depends on how in love with my partner I was. But I picked B, hell no! I don't need to have that much money to survive. If I really cared about him, I don't think there's any amount of money that would convince me to want to hurt or betray a loved one like that!
But I think given people's mentality, I think what they are trying to say is that money is. ore important than their SO! And even if they didn't get the 10 million dollars, they would still cheat anyway! . . Interesting!
This was a hard question but I guess if I can tell them that I "cheated" for the money? ! Maybe then they would understand? You said we could tell them!
Yes. And because you left a loophole in this.
You said:
You can tell them or not tell them it's up to you.
Not sure if you meant tell them as in tell them I will get 10 mil for cheating or tell them whether or not I am cheating. If I told them, I would split the 10 mil with them... so its a win-win. It would be cheating with a purpose that could benefit my partner and I.
Tell them anything about it... it would be up to you.
I selected hell yes but I wouldn't keep it from him. I would tell my boyfriend the deal and see if he was okay with it. 🤷โโ๏ธI mean come on its 10 million. I'd let him do it if the situation was reversed.
To see if it's "ok" with him? Fuckin A! Glad I'm not your boyfriend! If I were I'd take the money and kick you to the curb!
I feel like I answered it well. I mean even if I wasn't seriously asking him it's good to talk about stuff like that even if it's just an what if because who is really gonna pay that much for sex with a stranger. All that being said go fuck yourself because my opinion doesn't effect your life so what's with the hostility?
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Thank you.
Hostility? It was just a fuckin question! But I see how people like you that have no fuckin morals or standards! Thats part of what's wrong with society now days! Stay out of it coach!
Because you know my character and morals by one comment. You're funny!
Hell, no.
There's no amount of money that would be worth making me a shitty person, in my own eyes. That's a lot of money, but it would cost me my self respect, and that's not worth it. I could never do that to her, even if she didn't find out. I would still know.
The replies here once again show how corrupt and oversexualized our society is and how little importance it places on decency, education and behavior.
Sex and money prevails and rules, even here on GAG. It is rather shameful to realize that even a large number of girls think only with their genitals. I would have thought that this was the sole prerogative of men. I realize that some females can be just as vicious, calculating and oversexed b****.
Secret6620 are you offering and this is you way of getting applications lol. That's genius. First off who pays 10 million dollars to cheat lol like.. I would have so many questions 😂 that better be a hell of a show and you better not give me roofies in my coffee.. I know some people look up to Bill Cosby.. but I'm not about that.. and no tieing me up.. I know I'm a catch and all but like I can't be tied down.
Sign this waver.
I secret 6620 will pay 10 million dollars and will not roofy, drug Wally often, or toe him down. Also no diseases will be present.
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You're not very bright. ๐๐๐
Probably, but no amount of money could make me aroused by a girl I'm not attracted to. And the sort of girl who pays for sex isn't likely to be the sort I find attractive.
But I guess that's not really the point of the question. Any girl I am with would have to know the value of 10 million dollars over a few minutes of loveless sex. I wouldn't expect her to be super thrilled, but if she couldn't understand that such a thing would not be intended as preferring someone else's mind or body over hers, then we shouldn't be together in the first place.
Now, if she had set herself up as the "provider" in our relationship, then that's different - as she would be justified in taking that as me preferring someone else's provisions. But if I'm the provider, then I can assure you I do far more questionable things for money than just getting my dick wet.
Yes, I would emotionally cheat. Once the money is secure admit every detail, tell them it was for the money, then split it 50/50 with them and ask for forgiveness
Liking the honesty here!
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