When do you expect each of the significant milestones of a relationship to be passed?

By milestones, I mean things such as kissing, moving in together, engagement, etc.

So how long after starting a relationship do you expect each milestone to be passed, and in what order?

Also, are my own expectations unrealistic?

Mine, in order:
1. hand-holding and other light touching ( after ~1 mo)
2. hugging (~2 - 3 mos)
3. saying "I love you" (~4 - 6 mos)
4. kissing (~6 mos)
5. cuddling (~6 mos)
6. moving in together and sharing a bed, with no sex (~1 - 2 yrs)
7. oral sex (~4 - 5 yrs)
8. penetrative sex (~5 - 6 yrs)
9. engagement (~10 - 11 yrs)
10. marriage (~11 - 12 yrs/~1 - 2 years after engagement)
When do you expect each of the significant milestones of a relationship to be passed?
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