Do you think it is normal or nah?

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Do you think it is normal or nah?

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This is my boyfriend and his friend, he promised me to not take picture this close with his female friends anymore before. he posted this pic on his spam account last night ( he upload it after i upload an guy actor because i idol to him. he said he is mad and i think he want to make me jealous idk) he broke the promise and hiding this picture from me until ths happening. Guys... is it okay to let him take picture like that with his female friend? What should i do? I feel betrayed, should i forgive him and act nothing happend after this?

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Jbarry
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The picture isn't a problem, but breaking a promise is. He should have just had the balls to tell you that he's allowed to take pictures with people, because that's the truth. He looks like a low testosterone guy, so a woman, so a... super honest person 😉. Good luck with that.

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- Asker
  
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  What do you mean by low testosterone guy?
- Jbarry
  
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  When a guy's testosterone reaches a certain level he typically doesn't feel the need to be unnecessarily dishonest because he's literally not afraid of the consequences of truth.
- Jbarry
  
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  Weak guys tend to be deceptive and cowardly. It's not really meant to be an insult, just a statement of fact. That's how you end up with "white knights" trying to lie their way out of the friendzone.
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- Asker
  
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  Aight... thank you for the advice
- supercutebutt
  
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  In other words, thanks for nothing. Jbarry is an obvious doofus.
- Jbarry
  
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  You're a gay man, superCB. Bet you're a low-tier and repressed gay man too. Probably larping as trans when people call you out for not being female. Take your chaos somewhere else.
- supercutebutt
  
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  You wish I was a gay man. All your posts have an undercurrent of man lust. You are obsessed with men and their testosterone. It's odd. But whatever. If you want to imagine me as a handsome gentleman, go ahead. It's your fantasy. In your dreams, am I fucking you in your tight asshole?

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Grande_Beefy_Swirl
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... why do you care?

If you're worried about him cheating on you then you need to have a calm, respectable discussion about that. Tell him exactly how you feel and why you think he's wrong in what he's doing but also listen to his point of view and take his feelings into consideration.

If him having female friends or being in physical proximity to other women bothers you then you might be a tad insecure and that's okay as long as you're open about it. Tell your boyfriend "hey, I'm feeling insecure and we should try to work this out" rather than putting up restrictions on who he can be seen with.

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DiamondQueenOfAce | 110 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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Sorry but in my opinion this is such a childish thing for him to do and for you to be mad about. He has female friends, so what? He is in a relationship with you, not with them.

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- Asker
  
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  He used to flirt with her and he got friendzone with her, after those all he still want to he that close with her,, i in long distance relationship. I can't find out things so much
- DiamondQueenOfAce
  
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  Yeah okay, in context your worries sound reasonable. But just talk it out with him. Tell him that you’ve made a promise and that he broke it and how that makes you feel. Listen to his side too.

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prissiii
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It might be normal but yea ik how u feel that is not normal because u dont know what he's been doing

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Buckzor | 347 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Yoda

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Why are you so insecure to the point you won't ALLOW your boyfriend to take a simple photo with friends?

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- Asker
  
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  I do, but she is his ex crush. Lol
- Asker
  
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  So, you let ur girlfriend to take picture like that with her ex crush? And now they becoming friend or who knows
boredguy01 | 56 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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His hand isn't in an inappropriate position or anything so if you trust that he's not cheating on you I don't see what the issue is

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- Asker
  
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  So take picture too close like that with female/male friends is consider Okay?
- Asker
  
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  But u are in relationship
- boredguy01
  
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  So you don't mind him spending time with other girls but he isn't allowed to take pictures with them?
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- Asker
  
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  The picture taken when he went to her concert (school perform), i know about this girl before he met me he trying to flirt and said hit him up to her.. and i dont even know that he went to her concert that day.
PondyPand | 1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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its a picture. grow up.

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- PondyPand
  
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  And? It's. A. Fucking. Picture.
- PondyPand
  
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  Get a grip. Seriously. And learn to write in English please. Honestly, surprised someone would even waste their time with you, pathetic and insecure.

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cavmanier | 1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Master · Accepted Answer

It depends on many factors. It depends on how you feel about him doing that. It depends on their relationship. Are the purely JUST friends? Is one or more of them really interested and attracted to the other?

It looks like they are pretty close there. Their bodies are molded into each others. I may not like that. It depends on what their intents with each other are.

Statistically people tend to have back up plans that they are interested in. It might be true for them. How he posted it after he was mad was clearly a problem though due to him wanting to irritate you. I can see that his maturity level in the the 18 year old range.

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