Thanks! Lust or Want tend to get a bad wrap and for good reason. We generally think of them to mean wanting someone we don’t have sexually. We don’t typically think of lusting after our partner. It is usually about someone else. Yet, go a time away from your partner and you may feel Lust. Therefore, Love as caring as well as appropriate sexual desire is more fitting.
Shit, Sydney you nailed this one!
Thanks for the MHO
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I have been curious about it too. It's my hypothesis anyways. I think it is probably like this... We don't have so much time in our lives. Living in the society, at a certain age, we're pressured to have a relationship, to settle down or get married. Men persue women because of sex drive. Women accept the courtship due to the fear of being left out. Within limited time, we rush into a relationship. Very few people take time to get to know someone, and make sure they're mentally connected, most assume they are in love. Of course, many relationships are only based on attraction, status, wealth. It's not love.Once the Infatuation Phase (physical attraction) is gone, they are not blinded by chemicals in their brains anymore. Now couples would notice imperfections of each other. That's why their relationship fall apart.I observe most couples in my region, married men would gather together complaining about thier wives and constantly looking for mistresses. It's pathetic. I wonder if women understand what love should be and wait longer, they will see their partners' true color. Wishing the men wouldn't get bored easily after they get what they want.
Well that is a very detailed explanation of your theory, and it makes a lot of sense. However you displayed the problem with society, I'm interested to know if you have any theories on how to solve it.
Or even if their personality could use some work but you love them anyway.
True, but I think the high school sweetheart feels lust also. :D
@Porcelaine yeah but with the girlfriend there's something more than sex sex sex. Slut manager probably keeps a tally and doesn't give a damn about the rest.
Yes the manager cares about herself only
I've never once had a slutty manager! Lucky me! 😉