I don't think so, though I've had that fear. It's almost as if they'll think of you differently, be repulsed or just be a complete turn off. As a sexually anxious guy the paranoia is amplified, so I can understand the paranoia she's feeling.
She couldn't come up with (almost) anything kinky that I wouldn't like.
That said, you sure do like that one picture up top!
Thanks for the MHO
Sometimes I say stupid things. I always worry about offending people. Friends who know me know I don’t mean any harm whatsoever but sometimes I just blurt out something that sounds wrong.
Lol no
Funny enough every guy tells me pretty straight up about their kinks and what not, which i prefer.
I don't know why she’d be worried about this🤔
That's good to hear! I made a stupid joke on one of her preferences, and didn't realize she thought I was serious. She thought that was the reason we haven't been intimate in days while I was just tired.
Oh well thats the reason. Girls usually show love through sex, she's feeling insecure because she's thinking you dont desire her, when in reality you're just tired. Then you hit her again basically while she was down with a joke on her kink. So sounds like she just took it harder because she was already down. Girls minds are interesting to say the least
Exactly. I recognized I did a stupid thing, we talked about it and I apologized and told her I didn't mean it seriously and that I enjoy it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!A) fuck society. B) since you brought society up, consider how females are "expected" to be when it comes to sex... they shouldn't have kinks, they should lay there, legs spread, ready to be impregnated. That said, I'm a shit talker. My ex lived that I could banter all day long, but eventually he figured out there are some subjects off limits. 1) because in every banter response there is a modicum of truth if it's not crazy banter (i. e. you tore me up and I can't walk straight vs. I'm Soo sore from you I ain't fucking for ten more years...) 2) every woman has their basic vulnerable subjects (possibly more). Stay away from sex, looks, and literal comments of their self worth. Those three topics should only be commented on in a positive light (i. e. the fact you live using your feet to jerk me off gets me hot, or that big ol' but makes me hard every time you walk by). Or if it's something like anal or anything else taboo, we have this weird thing about yeah we engage in these acts, but you saying them out loud when we aren't actually doing them makes it "real" and we feel embarrassed and ashamed (thanks society). Make sense?
I understand, but the comment about society was more about myself than her. I don't really like sex and do it almost only to please her most of the time. I didn't mean to throw back at her but joked that sometimes she seems she'd really prefer I was comatose (it makes sense in context) so I wouldn't be so "annoyingly animated". She took it bad and I apologized.
Oh him, wasn't jumping on you. Just trying to provide a bit of insight:) to some of us women😊
Dudes know not to ask me for anal anything. Cause if they admit they wanna try it, theyre always gonna wanna try it until they do it. So i’d prob be on to the next guy and let him go be freaky elsewhere
I had a boyfriend, Paul, that only dated skinny petite Asian girls.
He really really really likes controlling us and his kink is he loves anal. Also, he loves deepthroating and seems to get off on making me choke and almost barf.
At first, I went along with it coz he took his time to make sure I was "ready".
It got to the point all he wanted was anal, no foreplay, not even any kissing. And he stopped using lube, except for spit.
I dumped him coz he was hurting me... and this was after I met his ex, Renee, and she warned me of his kink.
Since I dumped him, I have seen him with over 6 different women, all Asian. And he has been going for Vietnamese esp since they are submissive. All the girls are very petite with little to no breasts, and super skinny like I was; no boobs, sunken tummies, protruding hipbones, and no butt.
I was with a woman who admitted to having some kind of fetish but never did tell me exactly what it was because she thought I would leave her.
It came to my mind right before the thought that if I were to push a lover away because of a kink I like or fantasize about, then maybe we were never met to be. 🧐
Absolutely right, ure a wise old lady
if its say anything to do with body waste. or blood.
nope not doing it. nope nope nope
if you want to piss on my leg , ok but what am i going to get out in return sex anytime i want, deal
if its say blood
is it urs or mine
if mine, helll fuck no.
if yours. nooo. unlees you fucking allow me to fuck you all the time. then i may considerit.
im expectying some one to say. "scare thing is, he said he" consider it" "
if its got to with shit. omfg. hell fuck no, no no non no no if im being force to eat her shit, hell fucking nooooooooo.
no if its her doing it...
im expecting to some say" i can't beliver he's fucking considering it wtf ur messed up"
weelll only if for some fuccked up reason she was a soul mate, and hit off everything goold. then well. ... fuc, thats grosss, but i be like only once a fucking mothing no more. and fucking was you mouth out and shit. fuck, i have chewahuhas that eat shit, and its disgusting as fuck...
mabey only once a year. on aniversery. tbh. fuck that shit be giveing me shit night mares.
Damn bro, why do you always smell like shit the day after your anniversary?
@Tylenol lols I won't be smeeling like shit, it be her lols sorry but I ain't doin that. Its a one way street. And its all hers. Not mine lols but by fucking good,. If I had to shit on her and stuff, she better fucking make me a fucking king all my fucking life, and obey me. Like I'm fucking god. Cus is the nastiest thing fucking ever. But as I said. She have to be a fucking 100000000000000% a soul mate. Before I do that. Like how willing are you to go to pelge your love to me. . Like it have to be something crayz
Well, if he's into pretending to be a baby, he better find someone else to f*ck.
Never happened to me. But don't ever make jokes about your partners kinks or about their looks, even if you've been in a relationship for a while. Some people are just too sensitive and get offended easily and can not get it off their mind for a while.
They've feared telling me about women In-sexual things, but to the best of my knowledge, never a kink. I'm very open to discussing these things with my girlfriend, so I guess they knew they didn't have anything to worry about.
I've been in that position. Tell her your 2nd or 1st most embarrassing or odd kink so she understands she's not weird, nor are you judging.
Show her po**hub. I'm pretty sure 30 seconds will show her that her kinks are normal compared to the internet
Thank you for the suggestion! I tried that, but I don't really have kinks and hers is quite extreme to say the least. All I think I can do is reassure her and enable her in an healthy way.
Yes. It was fingerling her ass... Took her a while to tell me and she thought I'd run away.. Well.. I didn't. I love it
Such as? An honest discussion about sexual preferences should always happen.
That's right but it was a lighthearted joke aimed at one piece of news, I didn't think she had taken it to heart.
Okie dokie
Not on my end from my pic if it doesn't better now then later.
I will never be pegged. I’m just about sure I’ll do anything else. My exit is an exit only
Yes! Why won’t she stick her high heel up my asshole while she eats a popsicle? It’s all I ask...
Everyone with a kink fears this
It's okay to share what you want. If she likes then go ahead, else forget about it.
This image gets used way too much.
Never had a partner that feared that.
It's actually my fault for starting this fad. I used it once and it got popular with other G@gers
All the freaking time with my ex. Felt like walking on eggshells with anything I said during sex. She was super self conscious and unsure of herself and took everything literally. It's difficult to deal with but ultimately it comes down to she needs to be comfortable with herself and showing her you accept her in every way works a lot better than telling her
I have many kinks that my ex was offended by.
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