What if they just would cheat if they were given the opportunity but they weren't planning it?
1. WHY would they cheat if given the opportunity? Sounds untrustworthy to me!2. If murder and attempted murder are wrong,if robbery and attempted robbery are wrong, and if rape and attempted rape are wrong, can we say cheating is wrong, but attempted cheating is okay?3. If the only thing stopping them from cheating is the other person's refusal, the other person is faithful, but you can't say your significant other is. Agaib, the bottom line is: why were they so ready to cheat when the opportunity presented itself?
Wanting to cheat is okay as long as they don't do it then right?
No. Sometimes people fantasize about cheating but it's like a brief thought and then they're like oh well and life goes on may happen once in a blue moon or so through a relationship.. but having a desire to cheat and resisting is different. That desire doesn't just go away, it should be addressed. It's like men who marry but are secretly gay, eventually it rears its ugly head and everyone is shocked and surprised. You can only suppress your true self for so long before you give in and do something stupid.
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When I'm really trying to ask is what if your guy wants a certain girl and would go after her but he can't get her. is the fact that he won't be with her enough or does it matter if he would be with her?
*What I'm really trying to ask
Does it matter that he would be with her if he could? In reality she's not a threat because he can't get her.
Yes it fucking matters! He should only want to be with your if you are monogamous it’s that easy.
Maybe he should be like that but the reality of people is they are usually not that way