A few months
Wow, that's very sad. You're still newlyweds and already having such serious problems. That's unfortunate, but I'd say it's better to get out sooner rather than later. Usually, things like this get worse and not better...
Did you date each other a long time before getting married?
Nope only been together a year all together
So do you think you'll decide to get a divorce? That has to be hard after only a few months, but I really can't see this working out in a positive way. And do you plan to try to talk to him about these messages first? I'm just curious how you'll handle it. Confronting him has both it's good and bad points. If I was in your situation, I would be very confused about what to do next. And whether it's even worth it to try to talk to him.
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Alimony? We only been married a few months and he is in the military he doesn’t have that much money
Where are you? In the US or elsewhere? Because the alimony policies are different in each country but in the US i think you'll surely get alimony still (big or small) regardless how long the marriage was. I can ask an attorney to get more precise information on that matter - if you are in the US of A.But oh well. I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you'll be alright.