Thank you, very thorough. I've been hearing this too many times from clingy women. I don't mind clinginess, but I don't want her lacking confidence because she won't hang in there and fight for us.
That is not something for you to control. Its for you to prove to her before she pushes you away or run from you. She cannot fight for you. It is for you to lead and be somebody she can count on. Because we women need a leader and somebody we can trust wholeheartedly. You must give her a vision you can realistically meet and be happy to provide without hidden 'fees' to them. The more transparent you are the more she can feel the need to be with you.
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No, she's really insecure. And it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy if she is that convinced.
But the guy makes it clear he loves her. Why would he simply get bored?
Isn't she exciting enough?
True...But she was probably afraid he would. A lot of girls have fears like that.
That's disturbing, because to me it says no matter how dedicated he is, she believes the relationship is doomed
Like I said, it’s a common fear. I haven’t had that exact fear, but I’ve had others. Most of my boyfriends were able to calm them.
I constantly did that with my last girlfriend. Didn't work- she had an issue that made it a Sisyphean and kamikaze task all in one.