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He took it seriously, nowadays you never know.
Yeah like he told me no girlfriend in the world talks to his boyfriend like this. I just can't help laughing then. He's so innocent and adorable. 🤣🤣🤣
My fiancée says the same exact things.
Yeah he's also showed me necrophilia porn and that was pretty interesting
Jesus, what's the deal with necrophilia?My fiancée too likes that subject in art and I honestly have difficulty wrapping m y mind around it.
Yeah I don't get it either
What the fuck? Oh my goodness that’s disturbing
I suppose the explanation for my fiancée is that her being a nurse, she sees death almost daily in her workplace.
@AJC997 it's pretty abnormal, he's a weird guy so it doesn't surprise me
That could make sense for my hubby to. he's in the military and trained to kill so that stuff is normal to him
@Apple1996How weird are you talking?
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I do, I'm just trying to figure out some things.
"I'm just trying to figure out some things" - like what. Again no offense but I read those posts as a guy 2nd guessing himself.
Love your reaction haha. Man listen to this kind of women, they go straight to the point and no bla bla in between
I'm trying to figure out if I'm a good fiancée and if I'll be a worthy husband.She's got a lot of interesting and particular things going for herself, while I do not.She's confident and a go getter, while I'm too sensible and only have setbacks upon setbacks in everything I do.I think that some things disturb or unsettle me because I'm too flabby and ignorant to understand them.I don't think I'll ever measure up to her and I still don't completely understand what she sees in me, but I'm doing my best to support her and make her happy.
Man, You seem humble and honest and this is already a good character to have
@Barbarian8 I guess so, thank you.I never know what's the right thing to say or do, I'm happy when she gets giddly for something I do but I guess that in the end she settles with little things and not because I have any particular talent.I'm a little fish compared to her.
@Jean-Marie_Céline - at your age honesty & humility is a good thing, as Barbarian8 said. I look at your posts, however, and have been wondering. Your response makes me wonder more. Marriage is about equality. No equality spells for a bad relationship & a worse marriage. If your fiancée makes you self doubt yourself so much she may not be the woman for you. Disturbing things has nothing to do with being "flabby" unless it is disturbing (e. g. demeaning, abusive, etc.) towards "flabby" people. I, personally, am a very self-confident go-getter. I put myself through university with no loans. I've done a lot of things by my age. I do not make people feel lesser because of it. It's why I am extremely well liked from colleagues to friends to complete strangers. I mean no offense but I've known friends who get into relationships with a sense of inequality and it is no good for anyone.
My compliments for your achievements, I always look in awe when people achieve so much and have such a drive to reach their goals and aspirations. About my fiancée, it's not her fault I feel this way, it's my fault and I recognize it. She's always been on top of things since I know her and she's also been my tutor in school so I greatly admire her and try to take example from her. I'm happy to have her in my life and do everything I can to support her, but sometimes I doubt about what she can possibly see in me for her to choose and pursue me. I felt like that with all women I have been in a relationship with, so it's safe to say it's my fault for feeling like this.
@Jean-Marie_Céline - then you need to sort yourself out more than you need a relationship.
I'm working about this with a therapist, and on other personal issues as well. My fiancée wants to help but she has already done more than enough for me, it's not her responsability to fix me, but my own.
But I see nothing wrong on you
I did the same thing to my boyfriend and he asked me to never make him watch that movie again. I like the gore stuff but he's disgusted by it. That's okay 😆🤣
Lol it wasn't so much the gore, it was more so it was almost like she was excited to see it. at least from my point of view.
Bloody hell **no pun intended
I guess so!
Because she's a top achiever while I'm not, because she's beautiful, intelligent and determined and I'm not.
Maybe she doesn't feel she is. But sees all those things in you.
Maybe, I honestly don't know and I don't think I'll ever understand what she seed in me.I just want to make her happy in every way I can.
That could complicate things.
I know, but it's something I have to work on as it's my fault for feeling like that, not hers
What have you been doing to work on it?
I'm seeing a therapist and doing "confidence exercises" as she calls them. Like writing down what I feel or taking initiatives.
And does she go over em with ya?
Sometimes.She's busy so I try to not bother her too much with those things.
I was talking about your therapist.
Ah ok.Sometimes she does.
Even though your girl is busy, you should still be able to go to her. I'm sure she would want for you to.