Girls do you let emotions drive most of your decisions?
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VIVANT | 680 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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Everything hijabs do involves emotion. involves emotion. It’s simply a matter of making good decisions or bad decisions. if a person over reaches in being detached tyey can make many builders summarily if they get too involved personally. It really depends on the situation. Different problem tactics are required in differnt situations. You don’t solve a math problem with the same approach You wouid take to talking Down an angry person with a gun or a child passed out from hunger on the street who may or may not be harboring some fatal contagious virus.
life presents 100s of different calculation we must make each day. Some inconsequential others of great importance. for a tube here to say they don’t think with emotion, they see responding to a cliche About emotion being equal to lack of control.
But emotion guides us like a thermometer to read situations to know when we go too far or not far enough. pushes us to do better Be better strive for more Help others keep going on wren everything seems pointless.
even the impulse to come and think about this question involves and emotional impulse.
and who here is on gag bc of some purely logical calculation they are attempting to make. People come on here bc they are drawn to it.
They decide based on the initial Feeling to check it out. If they like it they stay. If not they heave or They write angry posts.
No one here is here by compulsion. They are here bc they are thinking “ rationally” not bc they are thinking irrationally. They are here bc they choose to bc they want to.
behaving rationally does not mean Decisions are made without emotion. people follow logical rules , they are still first “ following” before the Rule there is a desire to Be safe and included Or to be correct or reasonable or to profit etc. desire comes before calculation.
Cynicaldreamer | 1.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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Absolutely not! I tend to think with my head (logic) over my heart or emotions. I've learned that making decisions purely off an emotion can get you in trouble, or in my case, lead me down the wrong path.
Oh yeah: every guy I dated or had a crush on is the perfect example! LOL. I know that sounds bad, but considering what a fiasco they all turned out to me? It's taught me to think with my head, not my heart anymore. It seems to keep me out of trouble nowadays
Try to find a balance between your feelings and thoughts. Feelings are ok, just maintain them and use it correctly. Rational thought can't be used at every given turn.
Females tend to be more emotionally driven than guys are in many cases and thats not only in my experience but others. Females are literally set up biologically to have these kind of emotions because for humans to evolve correctly the women had to be the nurturer. Dont believe me? Then why does a womens mood generally shift so drastically during menstruation through hormones? Why does sex send chemical reactions to your brain that tells you to rest with your partner? Its almost like asking why guys are prone to be more aggressive, it is seen throughout all animals. This is hundreds of millions of years of evolution at play. Most women who won't admit to being emotional, which many won't due to stigma will lie about it. There is nothing wrong with being emotional, in fact its the same reason why i'd rather talk to a girl about certain things opposed to a guy. In my experience, most girls who i have ever interacted with are emotionally responsive, and thats perfectly fine.
Unit1 | 5.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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What girl doesn't? Tomboys? Career women? Childfree women? Intelligent women? Businesswomen?
Many of them do that. This is why men have observed women, made analysis on women's behavior and learned "how to control women" by influencing them with the right words, the right environment, the right settings, the right way to spend time with them, the right mindset. Charisma, feelings... they are able to "manipulate" it into the right way. Women of course can do that to us too but it's kind of like why should they when they have us doing that to them?
Passinggas | 334 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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They are emotionally reactive creatures and are driven mostly by feelings so the same thing that brought her to him has to remain constant and that will of course be different for all. I used to like to believe that women were as capable as men were but unfortunately, it appears that their sexuality untethered is self-destructive. Women (few exceptions noted) are highly impulsive to emotions and that in the natural world made them bond to men. Now, men are a commodity in this media hype culture and are traded on assets ranging from wealth to six-pack abs and dick size. The long-term family idea, concept has all been but destroyed in their outlook. They don’t appear to become relationship material mentally or spiritually until it is too late and their bodies have been abused and have expired their reproductive value.
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MorticiAddams | 109 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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No way. My decision process has a logical flowchart attached and my decision making motto is WWSD? What Would Spock Do?
Both - I make decisions both logically and emotionally. I care too much about how others may feel to be completely heartless. I'm too logical to let my emotions control me. I find balance between logic and emotions.
It has taken years, since I have an emotional disorder, but I've come a long way. I struggle at times, but that's why I sit back and think about it.
Yes a lot of the time. I struggle to say no to people out of fear of hurting their feelings as I've im very empathetic when it comes to the world "no" as I've had a lot f that myself. This has caused me to be in some very difficult situations and have toxic relationships with friends because im to scared to tell people the truth of of fear of hurting them.
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pleasestopthis | 1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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Emotions are fickle and make you irrational sometimes so I prefer to wait until I think the pros and cons of every option.
@Ummmmmmm222 I was very creative as a child and was always drawing and stuff, but I slowly stopped as I grew older. I am good at science and I studied something related to science. I recently began knitting so i guess that creative side is returning.
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