Long story I have a friends with benefits. We only have sex like once a month. We’ve been doing this since April last year. Here lately he has had some very serious, personal things going on in his life and he calls me to talk about them. Things involving his children and some other things. I am usually nice and listen but this time I told him about him self because he knows I actually have deep feelings for him. I’ve known him almost my whole life. Anyway, I told him he needs to get his shit together before he ends up getting into something he can’t get himself out of. He’s been living wreckless for almost a year now and it’s got him into some risky situations and he gets his 2 kids every other week. I’m just confused on why he only calls me when he either wants to have sex or talk about his personal stuff. If he isn’t interested in a relationship with me then why bother telling me his problems?