Is it selfish or considerate?

If a guy tells you that he's not looking for anything serious. Due to a devastating marriage He would rather be friends, but he felt sexually attract towards her. One thing led to the next and her feelings got too serious. I had to back off it was scary in a sense but now I'm getting the blame for using her? I was honest from the beginning we didn't have to sleep with each other and just hanging out is fine
Was I being too Honest?
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Or should I have left things alone after sex
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It was the guilt trip I assume... thanks
Is it selfish or considerate?
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