So we were together and had sex multiple times. And we would talk after and cuddle and be very intimate after. He always said I felt like home. It was so comfortable and easy with me. Then one night, with no sex involved, he said love you. We saw each other a few times after and had sex, then he tells me he's going through a lot, he isn't as good as he needs to be, I'm too perfect and he doesn't want to drag me through things. He is freshly divorced, not bc of me and he still messages me, not for sex. Where did I go wrong?