Guys, what makes you boyfriend/husband material?

- Family oriented is important, I think that helps. When I'm committed to someone, I'm committed. I like to work so I take my share of the home responsibilities or more. Im fun and playful and I can be supportive with right person and affectionate, so if she likes that, then she gets a lot of attention. I listen and communicate well... when I'm focused. And I'll plan, come up with fun ideas and adventures, be supportive of her kids and family, get along with most people well. I think I'm respectful of others issues and beliefs
I have my set of flaws though that make it not guaranteed and could counter everything I just said. It's a formula.
I wish I knew at your age what I know now, but that's life... learn as we go and we make mistakes and choices and that's that.Is this still revelant?Thank you! Great interview question that I'd suggest is good for a guys X GF's as well:) You seem like a winner, is it hard to find quality people to date?
Sometimes. Guys tend to paint a nice picture sometimes that turns out fake. Not all, I've made my mistakes.
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And that makes sense. I think if you find someone humble and honest, you'll know it:) If they just say the good things, then you know there is something missing. I could have negated every comment I made about myself... to me that's healthy. But some personalities that seem veyr confident, and thus are attractive, are delusional about what they are really like in a relationship. Those ones are painful. I'll stop here, was a good Q to figure out how to answer and within it is a big part of why relationships work or don't.
Q... you are in healthcare... how is that going in your view? Just noticed on your profile..
Theyre mainly concerned with emergencies. Im not too sure about the coronavirus stuff, thats high level doctors and stuff. Im a receptionist at the moment.
- I'm not, and I don't honestly know what my fiancée sees in me.Is this still revelant?
I may be too cynical, but I think she's either really optimistic about me or just wants someone who's inferior to her...
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022- Readiness to enter exactly such one relationship, when time comes, and being interested in a union and not a bit in anything like dating or similar. Putting sex not as primary but as the last priority. But the real essential things would only click with the right person, they are too special and there is no need or sense to consider a hypothetical relationship of me with just an abstract someone. With the most someone's these things would only make us completely incompatible.React
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- First of all his unconditional love for you, loyalty, hard working, caring, willingness to help around the house even if he has worked all day, definitely not abusive either physically or mentally , this is kinda petty but I guess that you should find him attractive enough to look at him now and again, let me tell you if you can find one close to that you might consider jumping on it,React
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- If you enjoy mutual love, massages, romance, fun, relaxation, intelligent topics and killing stress (as well as indescribable sex), then join me.
if you like playing mind games, follow random rules of dating, want me to pay for everything, think political/religious views matter or that zodiac signs tell you, that something isn't right, then stay out of my way and don't disturb my harmony.ReactLike
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- I'm trustworthy, loyal, very affectionate, caring, sometimes romantic, big (6' tall) strong, attractive, in good health, good with kids, have a job that provides health care for all kids I would have, also get all the same time off work as my future children would be out of school, I am good at managing finances/budgeting, well organized, and I know what I want out of life/I am decisive.React
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- 1. Looks
2. Money
3. confidence.
A guy can get by with any two, but all three is key to snagging the ladies.
No woman worth her salt would date a ugly dead broke guy that is weak.ReactLike
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Good point but if a good looking guy with money and confidence was dating me and he cheated or had a terible heart, then there no point and ill leave.
A good looking guy with money and confidence doesn't have to cheat - he's looking for a quality mate to share his life with.
Choose wisely, treat kindly. __Dr. LauraWell at least from experience and what I've seen, that guy you're describing is the typical guy who thinks he can get all the girls.
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And he CAN. That's why you have to be so awesome you set yourself apart. A high value guy is looking for a high-value girl.
What do YOU bring that is considered high value to a relationship? And no, it's not your kindness or generosity, or your vagina. Those are intrinsic to all women.
Do you understand men's needs? What keeps them to you? Are you willing to give them to the right one?So by that logic are you saying only men can be attractive with money and high confidence? Only men can look for a high status partner?
- Anonymous+1 yHonestly I don’t know... I really want to get more experience dating women to find exactly what I like. At this time I’m almost 23 and find it hard to develop real feelings for women I meet beyond just the initial sexual thing. I want to meet somebody that makes me weak at the knees then I know that i will be husband material to themReact
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- Anonymous+1 yI wouldn't. I give a lot and don't demand much, so I get frustrated that I'm constantly giving and not getting anything in return. Women don't seem to have any issue treating a good man as if he's just a thing put there for her convenience.React
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Meeting all the wrong women in all the wrong places. Sorry but you're including me in all women and i am a giver and i know a lot of friends who are the opposite of what you say.
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I secretly broke up with one girlfriend because she made me a ham sandwich to "show her appreciation" for fixing her car.
I spent six hours working my ass off to save her a thousand dollars in repairs and all the "appreciation" she could muster was some ham and mayo on a couple slices of bread?
So two days later, after thinking about it long and hard, I broke it off and never told her why. And the sad thing is, that's about as much "appreciation" as I've ever gotten. The usual, all women are evil and out to get men. I can do that too. doesn't really help your argument. Sorry youve had bad experiences but you blaming all women which obviously your mother was that way since you say all of us.
You seem to pad yourself in the back so much, yet you're single. Makes me wonder what makes you repulsive to women
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Lol. I have a girlfriend. I've been thinking about ending it lately because it's just more of the same. I have so many more responsibilities and so much less happiness with her in my house. I have to get pissed off for anything to get done, even though she works part time and I put in a ton of extra effort. I feel like she's just along for the ride instead of being a true partner.
- I did the marriage thing for 20 so I know that I am husband material and I've been a boyfriend to quite a few. Some would say that I have been good others might notReact
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- I don't know, none of the girls I was with ever really saw me as that kind of material so I couldn't say. I guess at the very least I'm loyal, affectionate/passionate, funny and I work hard for myself and my partner, about all I can do.React
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- this actually should be answered by the girls , as they know things better and even i wound like to know what does it takes or what does it makes guys like that?React
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- Knowing I love to love and im very loyal and I’m calm I don’t get mad at a female to where I yell or do something to themReact
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- I don't think I am good boyfriend/ husband material. I think my wife should leave me.React
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Even though she is amazing and I know I'm a piece of crap for it, I can't seem to get myself to be happy with what I have.
- There's this story in the bible about two women being with Jesus, one talking to him about his situation and the other taking care of his well-being, preparing tea and such. I'm a mix of both, but rather the latter.React
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- 1) understanding level
2) comfortblty level
3) Loyalty
4) unconditional love
5) blessing from parents
6) money - to complete daily basis
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- Women tell me if be great. I don't say it about myself.React
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- Cause I'm kind considerate and caring. I'd like to think I'm good looking I'm a great provider and I know I'm good in bed plus I'm hella funnyReact
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- I'm faithful, very caring, and a person who gives more than he takesReact
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- According to my fiance I make her feel special all the time.React
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- most of the times in marriage it matter is sex love and behaviour so I think it makes me boyfriend aur husband materialReact
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- It's Just the roll of the dice I can't say because everyone is differentReact
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