Thank you! Great interview question that I'd suggest is good for a guys X GF's as well:) You seem like a winner, is it hard to find quality people to date?
Sometimes. Guys tend to paint a nice picture sometimes that turns out fake. Not all, I've made my mistakes.
And that makes sense. I think if you find someone humble and honest, you'll know it:) If they just say the good things, then you know there is something missing. I could have negated every comment I made about myself... to me that's healthy. But some personalities that seem veyr confident, and thus are attractive, are delusional about what they are really like in a relationship. Those ones are painful. I'll stop here, was a good Q to figure out how to answer and within it is a big part of why relationships work or don't.
You make a lot of sense, thank you for the response! 😽
Q... you are in healthcare... how is that going in your view? Just noticed on your profile..
Theyre mainly concerned with emergencies. Im not too sure about the coronavirus stuff, thats high level doctors and stuff. Im a receptionist at the moment.
Gotcha, thank you!
Obviously something special.
I may be too cynical, but I think she's either really optimistic about me or just wants someone who's inferior to her...
Hopefully its for the right reason!
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Good point but if a good looking guy with money and confidence was dating me and he cheated or had a terible heart, then there no point and ill leave.
A good looking guy with money and confidence doesn't have to cheat - he's looking for a quality mate to share his life with. Choose wisely, treat kindly. __Dr. Laura
Well at least from experience and what I've seen, that guy you're describing is the typical guy who thinks he can get all the girls.
And he CAN. That's why you have to be so awesome you set yourself apart. A high value guy is looking for a high-value girl. What do YOU bring that is considered high value to a relationship? And no, it's not your kindness or generosity, or your vagina. Those are intrinsic to all women. Do you understand men's needs? What keeps them to you? Are you willing to give them to the right one?
So by that logic are you saying only men can be attractive with money and high confidence? Only men can look for a high status partner?
you're still super young, you still have a life time ahead of you. Like myself
can't say all women
I've never dated a woman who would lift a finger in return unless it was demanded.
Meeting all the wrong women in all the wrong places. Sorry but you're including me in all women and i am a giver and i know a lot of friends who are the opposite of what you say.
The usual. Blame the man, and claim that you're a giver, and everyone you know is a giver, and every woman on earth is a giver. Do you have any idea how many times I've heard that?
I secretly broke up with one girlfriend because she made me a ham sandwich to "show her appreciation" for fixing her car.I spent six hours working my ass off to save her a thousand dollars in repairs and all the "appreciation" she could muster was some ham and mayo on a couple slices of bread? So two days later, after thinking about it long and hard, I broke it off and never told her why. And the sad thing is, that's about as much "appreciation" as I've ever gotten.
The usual, all women are evil and out to get men. I can do that too. doesn't really help your argument. Sorry youve had bad experiences but you blaming all women which obviously your mother was that way since you say all of us.
My real mother was worse. My step-mother was better, but she's not American, so that's different.
I didn't say evil. I said y'all don't appreciate a good man. You don't know what a good man is worth, so you just take advantage
You seem to pad yourself in the back so much, yet you're single. Makes me wonder what makes you repulsive to women
Lol. I have a girlfriend. I've been thinking about ending it lately because it's just more of the same. I have so many more responsibilities and so much less happiness with her in my house. I have to get pissed off for anything to get done, even though she works part time and I put in a ton of extra effort. I feel like she's just along for the ride instead of being a true partner.
That is a scary thought.
Even though she is amazing and I know I'm a piece of crap for it, I can't seem to get myself to be happy with what I have.