8. Accept the fact that you do have emotions, you do have feelings thoughts, and opinions of your own. Do not be afraid to understand them. When you learn to focus internally on the things that do matter in your life, you begin to understand a lot of things about yourself that you probably never had a chance to even evaluate before. A lot of people end up with that partners, and have poor relationships with their loved ones because they didn't take the time wildest still by themselves to actually learn who they are and what really makes them happy and vice versa. just like I always struggles because of how very different I knows about myself through self-awareness, if I didn't discover about mbti 16 personality types, I wouldn't ever found out that I was an INFJ. You may not always agree with everything about your personality type, but one thing it can help you with as understand how your brain functions and what you can do to become a healthy individual if you want already healthy at all.
9. At this time, if you are struggling with any type of mental health issues, or even physical problems. I would highly encourage you to speak with a professional counselor, therapist, physical therapist, or anybody that is certified in addressing these issues. If it's affecting your physical health, it is always best to speak of course is your PCP. Don't put these things off. Is better for you to work on these things now and get yourself into a healthier position, then for you to start dating and then you haven't always problems that could have been fixed months if not years in advance. Never be afraid to actually open up until all this which is struggling with. You don't want anybody to just got off of it leave you because they can't handle something. Better for you to accept these things and work on them now, and for you to expect other people to just do it for you.
10. If there is something that you are interested in, such as playing that new video game that came out, learning a new language, writing a book, exercising, excetera. Now is the time to do so. You want to travel the world is best to just do it. Do something that is so productive that not only is it making you happy, you are taking these learning experiences and using it add Again part of your resume that allows other people to bridge that gap and actually get to know who you are as a person. And you can also learn new skills that you can adapt into your relationships already. It's builds confidence and others can give a good character reference. Building character is important.
11. Understand what relationships today entitles. You are better off understanding the relationship Trends, whether or not do you want to get married and do you want a partner that wants to be married also. You've got to think about what are your sexual standards. Do you believe in premarital sex before marriage, shacking up before marriage, having children before marriage, masturbation or pornography exposure. Are you comfortable with somebody looking at somebody else sexually on social media, and public, and a bar or club. You got a seriously think about these things. Because you don't want to engage in a practice that's already going to cause you problems, you don't want to create serious mistakes is going to affect your entire future. And you definitely don't want to run a high risk of divorce if marriage is in your future. I don't care what anybody say. These things are highly important because it can either attract people you want, or discourage people who want to get to know you but now they can't. Choose your battles wisely.
And finally. Just be yourself. Because you don't want to be somebody else and then run the risk of getting find out who you really are, and then your entire reputation is going to burn down in affect every area in aspects of your life. Not just your career, but your relationships with people. Don't be afraid to be alone. Because in reality you're not alone.Bonus: don't date around! Experience is not going to help you, it will create more baggage. Not worth it.
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A woman's purpose is not to get married and have children. Good grief, what century are you from? Many women these days don't even want children. If you desire to have kids and be in a relationship, that is awesome and you should pursue it. But to say that is a woman's purpose is sexist.
there are few components of your life - family (parents and siblings), education + career, significant other and kids. You just miss one of 'em and you'd have to pay for it. That's the nature's rule. I'm a realist, to some people I might be sexist. Lady, I know more female behavior /psychology that you know it and if you think you know yourself better than anybody read archetypes of Carl Jung.
How exactly would a woman, or man, pay for not having children? Explain this to me. And it's extremely laughable for you to tell a stranger on the internet that you know more about them and their gender, mind, and body than they themselves do. Many women pay emotionally and physically BECAUSE they had children.
Did you read the archetypes of Carl Jung?
I did do some research on the topic. But I am asking YOU why YOU feel women would pay for not having children. I wan't YOUR opinion on it since you claim to have so much knowledge about women.
You're 22 at the moment. If you decided not to have kids, you will know by 35.
I will know what?
How miserable you'll be if you didn't have a family.. Ask those women who can't have kids.
There is a huge difference between women who can’t have kids that wanted them and women who simply do not want them. Have you ever spoken to a woman that did not want kids and is a little bit older? I have and they were genuinely happy with no regrets. They seemed to be living a very fulfilling life. I think you need to understand that we are all individuals and we do not all want the same things and that’s okay
not true TonyMetal_1986 - ! I know for a fact it is better to be single then to be hit , beat and almost killed by a males who us women thought we knew ! I would rather be alone and single for the rest of my life then to be beat by a man who may be like you
@MissDawn7961 haha, really? Why would i beat you or kill you? What makes you think that i'm type of men!Your totally wrong and assuming wrong things about me...If you look tonmy followers, there are all girls and actually it's women who always feels safe with me, the thing is that i'm a real man and i don't accept or be shut for things that women does wrong or take advantage of a man!What i said is true! Like it or not old lady!Also it's true that it's better to die single than being tortured and killed but i feel sorry for you thinking that i'm such a man while you don't even know me grandma!
Like, take yourself shopping, to the movies, to the dinner