Do you get jealous in your relationship?

[Obtuse]

Not the slightest bit. Well, the way I rationalized it with all women is that I can't lock them up in a dungeon and shackle them up and keep them away from the world for the rest of their lives. They are going to be out there in the world absent from my company.

If I can't trust them when they are talking to a guy in my presence, how am I supposed to trust them when I'm not even there? So I always chose to trust. If she betrays me, that's on her, not me. From my standpoint, it's morally right to trust her.

From maybe I'm a bit egotistical or something. I don't know. But I wasn't that afraid of them choosing another guy over me. If they did, then perhaps we were not meant to be. I would be very disappointed for sure, maybe even outright devastated with the ones I loved most, but a good part of me knows that it wasn't meant to be if they left me for someone else.

[ikEVERYTHING]

I'm a very confident dude but at the same time yes. Not because she would want to leave me for them or anything but just the fact that they would hit on my girlfriend makes me a bit upset. I never act upon it of course.

[CherryRoseChampange]

Tbh, it annoys me that I do sometimes but I never tell him haha. It'll be over stupid stuff. Like he REALLY loves his dog and his games. And sometimes he'll get mad at me if I ask him anything during certain games. And he talks about his dog a lot.

I think it's both cute and irritating depending on my mood. But I get it, I love my dog and work. It just sucks because most of the day I'm really independent and relaxed. It's just the rare times I am needy in the day and I want affection, it'll be put on hold for those two things, so I feel slightly jealous.

I know it's silly though, he loves me a lot and is the biggest sweetheart. So I keep it to myself. Don't want to be that annoying nagging girl. I can wait 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[Jellenders]

I do, but a healthy amount. I feel like when someone shows jealousy, it means that the person really cares about you and also possession (which is kinda hot)

[AmandaYVR]

No I don't. Although I haven't seen much of it, from afar or whatever. I have always wondered if something would really get to me. Cause so far nothing has. Been 20 years. It's partly cause he's a good guy, but a lot to do with my personality I guess. And that's even with two boyfriends breaking up with me because of two sort-of exes coming back into their lives.

[TonyBologna25]

Yeah, there are moments. Been cheated on before, so I’ve had to ask myself if this is a rational concern or not. I know how guys can be, and I feel like I can read people pretty well. If a guy is trying to casually flirt with my girl, I’d definitely be able to spot it before her. Or when an attractive employee helps us, and I notice her body language slightly shifts. Having said that, I trust her, and it’s a good feeling. Attraction towards others is completely normal. I’m guilty of it. As long as she respects boundaries, we’re cool. Even if someone does cheat. You can’t control someone else’s moral code. There’s no sense in living in paranoia or closing off the opportunity of having a real connection with someone based on things that haven’t even happened.

[F-eight]

Hmm, it's more like I don't really get jealous. It matters less about who she talks to as compared to what they talk about. If the guy hits on her, she should be able to counter it. If she plays along, and does that with everyone else, then instead of getting jealous, I'd be dumping her ass. Anyway whoever does whatever they want anyway so nowadays I hardly care about any of it anymore because being jealous is not really my thing

[Twalli]

I'm pretty confident she'll stay with me. Apparently she waited a year for ne to ask her out and turned down three guys in that time period. Seeing as she had no way of knowing if I'd as her out I think it was a poor decision to wait, but then it all worked out in the end.

[SjE78]

personally, no... i experienced it a few years ago, but it turned out not to be jealousy but rather a gut feeling that my (then) girlfriend was cheating on me and i couldn't put my finger on it or get any answers

[Chia241]

i am actually quite possessive about my couple.. so yes i do get jealous.. p. s my partner will do the same to me too so no problem

[Anonymous]

Nope, I wouldn't even care how many women he's hanging out with. He's not the center of my world and I have my own life. He knows he's lucky enough to have me and TBH, it's very hard for me to get jealous because I know my worth, though I admit I've cheated on my exes.

[MannMitAntworten]

No. I guess I just trust them and they just never gave me a reason to be jealous. Thing is, the women I date don’t seem motivated by things like testing me in ways like that.

[AzureGirl]

Yes, though it’s rare. I could probably count the times I’ve felt like that on one hand.

[LilytheHorcrux]

sometimes only when they're very friendly and the girl is pretty as fuck lmao

[CubsterShura]

Not much when he talks to any girl, but if it's someone that had some history with OR she's clearly hitting on him/showing interest OR she's the type that my boyfriend finds attractive, yeah I get very jealous.

[Vince45]

I get jealous if alcohol that liquid is very good at taking her away from me :(

[Anonymous]

I got jealous once when my boyfriend forgot my favourite colour while he remembered the favourite colour of his female classmate /good friend.

[pigoat]

If she is jealous she better do a good job of hiding that or she can kick rocks

[ninjafemme]

Nah I ain't crazy. Only jealous if he about to get with another girl. Even then im crazy XD

[Totti94]

Getting jealous is natural... But definitely make clear before that day end... It's must for a healthy relationship

[Guthm]

Yes, I get very jealous.
Actually , Arabic girl love jealous men.
Even if man don't feel jealous this mean he don't love her

[itsnotthatsmall]

I just want the same attention as i got when we first decided to get together instead of seeing it start to get shared and end up with less and less till im just there.

[Mohamedyossef988]

Trust is the most important thing in any relationship.

[Stonernights]

Because they gave me reason to be jealous. Its messed up