Would you get into a relationship with someone who has trust issues?

[Prettygurl12]

If I were younger, maybe. But I don't have the energy to deal with that now. If we're gonna date then that means you have to automatically trust me 100% unless or until I give you a reason not to. I don't have the energy to convince you to trust me.

That's supposed to take place before the relationship starts when you're just talking/getting to know each other before entering into a relationship. Once the relationship is agreed upon that level of trust has to be 100%.

So if you meet someone and immediately decide to date, regardless of where your trust is in that person, it has to jump to 100% to have a successful relationship. Then, if/when the other person demonstrates that they're untrustworthy you end the relationship.

That's why I advocate to be friends first. I don't want to involve myself romantically with someone who isn't trustworthy or doesn't trust me. I don't have the time or energy to constantly be reassuring someone in the beginning of a relationship.

[kay1315]

No I wouldn’t. Trust is an important part of a relationship, and if they can’t trust you there are going to be a lot of problems. Now if you did something for them not to trust you then that’s a whole different story and you need to work on gaining your trust. But to me if you really like someone, you wouldn’t do anything to break their trust. But shit happens so 🤷🏻‍♀️

[iimJay]

Not anymore. Everyone I've dated with trust issues ends up being the type of person you can't trust. I see how they have trust issues. Since they lie and cheat they think I'm capable of doing the same. I've put trust issues into my list of red flags. A relationship can't even go very far like that and I don't want to be with someone that won't trust me on some level.

[Jjpayne]

I'd be hesitant to. Trust is far too important to overlook

[aWes0MeNeSs]

Probably not, simply because I think that's something that should be worked through prior to seeking another relationship, and sometimes "trust issues" manifests as jealous and controlling behavior. Trust is the foundation of a relationship and without it, the relationship is doomed to fail.

[Apope16]

If i loved them yes. Then proved my love.

[potatoiswhoiam]

There are people with trust issues who use that to become overly suspicious and manipulative, and there are others who realize they have trust issues but would do their best to avoid letting that affect their relationship. If my partner is of the second type and clearly wants to work on himself to get past his issues, I wouldn't mind dating him

[LoU_Hades]

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Winning someone's trust who has a trust issue from former relationship takes time, but it's a good motivator to improve yourself and it pays of in terms of loyalty. People with trust issue are very likely those who value loyalty deep inside themselves as a positive trait.

[Hermes-Paris]

I got this crazy idea that trust is something earned and not given. Silly huh? I don't trust or expect trust until enough time has passed and the bond is formed. Protecting your house, yourself and your world is not a bad way to keep what you have worked for. It's great when you can share with someone you want in your life. Make sure your new partner isn't careless or stupid to destroy what you have worked for.

[juliascone]

I feel like everyone has some sort of trust issues, some worse than others, so obviously it would depend on how bad they were. I voted yes, however if a person has trust issues and demand to look through my phone and overly control me like forcing me to not go out with friends cause they don’t trust me, etc. then that is a big deal breaker and red flag

[crazy8000]

Prefer not to since majority of female's that have this problem turns toxic. doesn't want to take responsibility for it. pin it on him. try to make him look like a shithead. high risk of cheating/jumping to new partner to get some ruch, getting their issue fed. their partner never gonna be good enough. rarely gonna be able to love their partner really deep or in all of the different ways that are needed to create right kind of love for something longterm and healthy two way relationship.

[Liadon]

Depends if they were attempting to seek help for it or not, and were willing to make changes and develop. If they were overly stubborn and resistant to this then I'd probably step away from the relationship due to being too much for me to deal with at my current moment.

[pigoat]

I've seen trust issues relationships and that makes me happy to be single

And i don't see that as a good thing lmao

Fuck trust issues people

[spartan55]

If she has trust issues to the point of damaging future relationships then she shouldn't be in a relationship. And it sure the hell isn't going to be with me.

[read12]

You get into relationship and then u came to know later about this usually... So in a long run relationship doesn't work... Maybe in start u can ignore it... But not for a long time

[mattmanyah2]

I've been cheated on so I understand... I'd date almost any woman that is chassing after God, is kind, honest and encouraging...

[LifeIsGood00]

Yes &no. If they are honest about the fact that they have trust issues and are willing to try, than yeah. But it’s too much to handle if someone is hostile about their trust issues and doesn’t even try to trust anyone.

[Blindguyplaying]

It's EXTREMELY hard. And when it comes to dating, you can't make the first move. You have to wait until she gives the okay, which is luck of the draw. There's no having them soften up to you. They either let you in or keep you out

[Anonymous]

I think I would actually be more likely to get in a relationship with someone with trust issues. Not because it's fun to deal with, but I'd just want to show that person that there's people in the world that can be trusted.

[Kat_654]

No I dated someone in the past relationship who didn’t trust women. Without trust, that would be the death of the relationship.

[arabgoddess]

Yes if I can prove that I can be trusted! Can't trust anyone until they can prove they can be trusted

[EthanielXzavier]

As somebody who's had some trust issues, I feel like us both having them makes it a bit better than just one having them because we can understand each other's perspective

[katjmj]

I am the one with trust issues 😂 but we were able to get past it

[SomeGUYonGAG]

I would, I can completely understand why. Something I've learned about people with trust issues is when you finally gain their trust it's something very valuable and something to be proud in.