Why does not he end this?

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Guys, me nd my boyfriend are in relation from 7 months.. there were a lot of fights in beginning but love on both sides was present.. because of my harsh past where I have badly cheated by my ex i was unable to trust my recent boyfriend completely.. i always used to insecure and always had doubts that whether my boyfriend will cheat me like my ex did.. though that was not my mistake but I have suffered a lot in my past.. no matter what my boyfriend never left me he always made me understand that nothing was like that.. in these 7 months I couldn't stop overthinking nd being insecure.. nd this result in making my boyfriend tensed depressed...
I was also feeling the same as there was lack of understanding.. he used to put all the blame on me.. that relation was falling just because of me.. though we both tried to make this work.. I changed myself to better extent.. but till my boyfriend got tired of this shit.. he asked me for space for first time.. I gave him nd he made it clear that it was not a breakup he just need time for himself.. after space I contacted him but though he was not talking like before.. I thought I should finish this relation as I couldn't make him more depressed but yet he is not leaving me.. i told him that this relation is getting toxic. but he said he never thought of ending it nd will never do... I can't understand he is so much stressed but then why dont he leave me?

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RJJ33666

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Your boyfriend is turning into the obsessive yet mild type, which is not good. You should probably leave him because even after taking space he still wants to be with you but doesn't act like he should with his girlfriend. If this goes on then he might become controlling and obnoxious about your life which will leave you with no freedom. But if you truly like him then sit down and talk to him, but if he still isn't changing then you have leave him

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He said he wants this relation nd he is trying to change himself.. but on the other hand he puts all the blame on me.. nd when I asked him that he can leave me if he wants to then he said angrily that I am dumb who can't understand that he dont wanna leave..
Like me he also lost his frst girlfriend of 5 years due to family issues.. nd I am his second love..
RJJ33666

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Thats what i am saying, he is turning into the obsessive and obnoxious type of boyfriend. I know he lost his first girlfriend due to family issues (which is very sad) but now he has you so he is becoming obnoxious about you. If this carries on then will become very controlling

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Asker

He said he wants this relation nd he is trying to change himself.. but on the other hand he puts all the blame on me.. nd when I asked him that he can leave me if he wants to then he said angrily that I am dumb who can't understand that he dont wanna leave..
Like me he also lost his frst girlfriend of 5 years due to family issues.. nd I am his second love..

Answer 3

RJJ33666

Thats what i am saying, he is turning into the obsessive and obnoxious type of boyfriend. I know he lost his first girlfriend due to family issues (which is very sad) but now he has you so he is becoming obnoxious about you. If this carries on then will become very controlling

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Ianto | 234 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

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He had his "break" but failed to find a better alternative. Why would he finish with you before he has another option lined up?

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He has another options well.. A girl like him a lot..
And he has told me clearly that whether I leave him
Or he leave me eveor if he find better than me
Still he will never replace me...
Asker

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He also said after finishing space he will ask me again if I want him or not..
Nd If I would reject him then he will go..

Answer 5

Asker

He has another options well.. A girl like him a lot..
And he has told me clearly that whether I leave him
Or he leave me eveor if he find better than me
Still he will never replace me...

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Asker

He also said after finishing space he will ask me again if I want him or not..
Nd If I would reject him then he will go..

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Zarapeachy | 120 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

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Firstly, you were not in a right space of mind to enter another relationship hence your lack of trust in you current partner. And insecurity feeling. Neither of you at fault but whether or not he will leave, you should consider it because you should work yourself for a bit before dating again.

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