Yeah I understand where you are coming from. I've been there more than once but if I'm honest with myself it only got that far because I ignored all the signs that I should have paid attention to the first time. The second my insecurity of getting hurt mannefested into jealousy because of how my first relationship ended. Have you ever see those disclaimers at the end of an Investment pitch? "Past performance is no guarantee of future results" Its like that the past is the past because things are great now 10 plus years. Its has not been perfect but close enough. We learned to communicate what we need instead of expecting the other to read our minds. It has been worth it and I'm happy I gave it another chance. Especially since I have 2 beautiful little girls that have resulted from it
I guess what I'm saying is I would go through the 2 heartbreaks again and then some if I had to to get where I'm at right now. GOOD LUCK!
thanks for MHO ;)
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Breathe... you sound like it would put you into a panic attack. Honestly you can't live life scared of what ifs. You are a strong women we are designed to break and come back stronger like a damn Phoenix. My last birth almost killed me but here I am kicking life and living it the best I can with 2 gorgeous girls. They dad turned out not to be the love of my life and that is ok. We still gave life to 2 daughters. Life can be scary but it is ment to be hard. On the religious side we were sent here as punishment according to the bible. Life is a test to see how we handle it. Some get it easy others not so much how you handle the situations is how you will be judged.
@mousie26 Nice of you to say mouse - yes - I'm afraid to fall in love but I dream every week about having a husband I love and cradling a baby in my arms