My boyfriend is an athlete, what do I say to him after his team loses a game? (Page 2)
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girl.. you just gotta look him straight in the eyes and tell him winning isn't everything, he had fun playing, and just tell him he did an amazing job at the game.. then hug him and tell him you are there for him and thhat they will win next time... finally kiss him and smile to him
You should say dont worry its a game afterall, winning and lossing is a part of game... its like a 2 sides of a coin one has to occur... dont worry, my heart says next time we will surely win!!! I knw coz am aslo an athlete n my girlfriend says it... hahalol
When I lose, I'm in no mood to talk. Nothing can be said that wouldn't irritate me at that point. Losing blows. Probably best to say nothing unless he talks to you first.
The failure shouldn't be encouraged. It should be laughed at. So next time he train harder and win. The only loss that you should encourage people about is the las vegas casino loss when you're the owner.
First get on his side by saying along the lines of "fck those fckers" then ask "how do you think it went".
From there on he'll rant about how either he played rubbish, or that they were better. Agree etc.
You should be totally honest with him. If you tell him he did an amazing job, he knows your lying. you should tell him, that wasn't his best, but he tried. You should always support him, even when he's down. :)
"You goddamn useless son of a whore, where in the F*CK is my medal? Where is it!?! I want my medal you BAAASTAAARD! Get it! Steal it!"
Win a game... you get a blowjob ;)
Lose a game... you get an even better blowjob ;)
Either way he's happy
I think it depends on the type of guy
If he has low self esteem than probably console him and encourage him to do better next time
If he's a happy go lucky kind of guy than you should go with how he reacts.
Not everybody wants remorse about things that he has failed at. So maybe just move on unless he's really bumbed out about it
You Blame the Referee's! lmao!
"What was that ref freakin' Blind?". . . "Did they find that ref on the streets right before the game?"
lol, that's just a joke but it's what I used to do, ha.
try 1 of those big, jealous-making, wet kisses and a "well, at least you won me". works for me, I'm sure he'll get over it right away. you might get in trouble tho. remember the "jealous-making" part? well yeah if you do it in front of he's teammates you can just picture the outcome of it. oh well c'est la vie.
"I don't need 2 pussies" or "i'll be in bed naked while you sit here and have a cry about men passing a ball around"
Don't say anything. It's a part of being an athlete he'll get over the loss and move on to the next game. He just needs a morning period. Don't try an insert yourself in his own personal struggle.
Don't patronize him, but let him know that your feelings for him are the same regardless of whether he wins or loses. Remind him that there are more important things in life.
hmm go up to him and kiss him and say "you're always a winner in my heart" That'l make him feel better lol
IF he's a professional he understands no one wins them all. I doubt he'll need a lot of hand holding!
What do you do when we win? Party!
What do you do when we lose? Party harder!
Give him a hard time then give him kiss. =)
For one, that's Zak Grinke. You're not dating him.
To a point you're right, you can't let him dwell on it. He's been trained not to.
But an athlete's psychicy is fragile. Got to be careful on how to tell him that.
Don't say anything just put your arms around him and your head on his shoulder and hold him. It'll say more that words ever could.
Tell him he was awesome and that the other team sucked. Talk about something they were doing wrong to make him feel number one again.