I am in a long distance relationship right now and we know each other from 3 years and we decided to live together in upcoming 2 - 3 years but now something strange has come she is talking with her ex boyfriend and she wants to go there and enjoy life she is going to live 4 months ( including kissing sex) she told me this but she wants to live with me in future. She is convening me that I want to go and enjoy like parties, kissing and sex and she is telling me you can have sex too before living together and I don't understand what should I say because after 4 months she won't be the same person for me. I mean I am just messaging her (where are you, I miss you) and she is busy having kissing or sex with him. I am really messed up. I don't know what to say to her. Please I really need opinions?