I feel it's so selfish honestly, invested so much in the relationship and now he does this to me after promising he would never do this to me, and I must wait now till he is ready to be with me again he says, it hurts so much, did yours also give you hope that you will be together again? 💔 I know how you feel💔What should I say to him you think? Cause I don't feel loved by him doing this, he should be wanting to be with me
Yeah he said pretty much the same thing. That we could be together when he “gets his career on track”. I moved on from him because I wasn’t impressed with him putting his career over me (it’s entirely possible to build a career and have a relationship). As for what you should say, you should say you don’t feel loved with him making this decision. It is up to yourself if you want to wait but I wouldn’t recommend it.
The guy I was with for 2 years did it to me💔😭 and said he loved me more than anything and sees a future with me and wants to be with me yet he is doing this, and now I must wait till he is ready to come back to me he says... What should I say or do to make him realise what he is losing? 💔
It’s an impossible situation. You really only have two options. #1 You put your future on hold while he strings you along and does… whatever, without any guarantee that he actually intends to return. And I doubt he will. #2 You say, “I can’t live like this; it’s over.” And, as painful as it is, you move on.Any wavering on #2 means you’ve actually chosen #1.What he’s doing is a cowardly thing. He doesn’t want to dump you so he’s making you do it.
I am going through a very hard time cause he lives downstairs from me attached to our house and he hasn't even once in the past 2 weeks came to see me to talk yet he lives right here, and it's so hard to see him here and hear him I just want him to move out💔 and now I am in difficult situation cause he is only maybe moving in 2 months time, and I am afraid my dad might ask him to stay cause he needs to the money, they renting from my dad, it's hurting me too much with him still living here, cause to know he is just downstairs yet he can't even walk up to me to talk hurts so much, he just spends all his time with his roommate downstairs, it's so hard, how can he say he loves me yet he is not wanting to spend time with me and putting me through this
I’m telling you, a guy who was in love with you wouldn’t do this. It’s nothing but a cowardly way of breaking up. Move on. He has.
How can he all of a sudden not be Inlove with me anymore after 2 years, he seemed to have loved me so much he was always making me important to him and caring, and did a lot for me, and now all of a sudden he says. He needs to be selfish now and only think of himself, yet he says he loves me this is not love,... When the woman you love is right upstairs but you choosing to not see her or anything 💔 why say he loves me then and everything? 💔Must I just go silent? Then he will wonder what happened and realise he lost a good woman? 💔
It’s hard to believe he was ever in love with you. Maybe he was and it faded and he lost interest. Maybe he faked it to get sex from you. I repeat, a man who *actually* loved you would not do this. Your best move is to move on. Not pretending to move on so he’ll come running back; actually moving on. He’s not coming back.
So him wanting to all of a sudden after 2 years breakup to only care about himself is wrong you also agree? 💔. Cause he makes like doing this is the right thing to do and was best decision, and still telling me we will be together again and stuff 💔 and he is even telling me to live in other country for better opportunities,
I agree that it’s a shitty, cowardly way for him to break up with you without actually breaking up. Giving you false hope is wrong and exacerbates your broken heart. A surgical breakup would have been kinder. But he has decided to leave that to you. And until you are capable of that, you will torture yourself and he still won’t care. Why? Because he doesn’t love you. He got what he wanted. Now he just wants you to go away. He has said so by encouraging you to move out of country. He’s a coward and a bullshit artist.I know it hurts to have your heart broken. I have sympathy for you. But nothing you do will make him see the light. You’re just wasting time and energy on a lost cause.
I am sorry for all the messages I just feel so alone and I keep seeing him leave in the car not caring about me the pain is too much, I really just want him to leave💔. If he can move out I will feel better, having him here keeps tempting me to go down and talk to him, I don't want to feel like this for more than 2 months still and I will for aslong as he lives here cause how do you move on if the person is right by your house? 💔
Seeing him constantly makes it very difficult. I’m sorry.Can you do anything to cultivate your own social life? It’s hard when you’re heartbroken, but it also will help you get over him.
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What should I say to him? I invested a lot in the relationship and he made me think he is serious about me and now just wants to be single, and says I must wait for him that we will be together again, he is willing to risk losing me💔. What should I say to him please?
He can still focus on himself while being in a relationship with you.I don't understand him but it seems to me that you really care about the relationship unlike him.I say let him know you won't be around when he finally decides to be with you again.You deserve a better partner than him, someone who really cares about you and doesn't take you for granted.