Preach it hon... I said the same.. You just said it better... Man people these days... Bad enough people throw words around without knowing what they really mean... But don't, don't get into a relationship unless you know what that really means... And then people wonder why I stay single 🤷🏼♀️ cuz If rather be alone than with someone who don't get relationships, or life for that matter
Ha Ha yep. Either lets work on this in the relationship or your "break" is a break up!
@Brainsbeforebeauty YES! I am so sick of the dating scene now. As sad as it sounds, some of us are just better off single because we don't have the patience to put up with foolishness from people trying to play games with us! Why is it so hard to stick with someone, through the good and bad, and be committed to them? Is that REALLY so much to ask? I'm not asking for a "perfect relationship" because such things do not exist. I just want a partner that wants me for me: good, bad, ugly, cynical, and all. Nah girl, apparently we're asking too much. Let's just stay single instead!
How am I supposed to manifest your dream man with all this negative talk. LOL
@coachTanthony you can manifest that huh 🤔 but do we get a side of fries with that 🤣🤣
@Cynicaldreamer again, so hear you!!!
@Brainsbeforebeauty No fries... no chips... no dip. NO.
Aww damn.. I'll stay single then 🤣
@Brainsbeforebeauty Ha Ha Ha
@Brainsbeforebeauty Jeez, where were you ladies when I was single?
@BeenThereLovedIt lolol in one myself till Oct of 2013 when hubby passed, and then hiding from stupidity since 🤣
@Brainsbeforebeauty Honestly, I've never experienced a relationship with a female that is as intelligent and wise as yourself and some of the other ladies here. I always knew you guys existed, but never had much chance to interact, so this is a bit of a wow-moment for me, and at the same time a sad moment that I feel I've missed out on better possibilities in romantic partners.
@BeenThereLovedIt are you saying your romantic partner's not smart 🤔I wouldn't suggest saying that to her 🤣🤣 lol
@Brainsbeforebeauty how about not *as* smart as I'd like in a partner, but my current partner is smarter than previous partners. I don't mean to be insulting to her. It's also more than that, raw intelligence is one thing, but a positive demeanor and wisdom goes a long way, and that's where a lot of females in my life were challenged or limited. I've never met my equal, and that's not to sound cocky but just brutally honest. I was complimenting you and Cynicaldreamer in that sense, that you are both wise and seemingly worldly in ways that I've never experienced from either men or women in my life. It's a welcome surprise.
@BeenThereLovedIt well thank you... Life learned... They say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger and as ain't dead yet,? Lol It is life experiences tho that shape a person into what/who they are and gives a person their wisdom
@coachTanthony You can manifest my dream guy? Where is he at then? Can you have him come by my place with a pizza so we can netflix and eat? Not chill, eat. I'm hungry, LOL
You don’t think people can use time apart?
@chrismarie5589 Of course! That's called "me time." A break to allow you to do your own thing or spend time with your friends or family; that is completely different than a break in the relationship where said person is basically saying, "I'm not sure if I want to be with you or not, so let me think about things." I know especially with most people self quarantined right now, their spouses or partners are getting on their nerves. Okay, go for a walk by yourself, do something by yourself like a hobby, or spend some time doing something you enjoy and tell your partner to do the same. Believe me, I'd probably go crazy if I was with someone 24/7 right now as well and I'm an introvert! But if need space from someone for other reasons, such as you're not sure how you feel about them? Just end the relationship. Because if you cared for them you wouldn't want a break from them; you would talk about what's bothering you and see if it's fixable.
Hell yeah! #quoteformotherfuckingtruth
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Right!! Thanks 💯🙂
Every situation is different but for me I would ask... can we fix whatever the issue is while in the relationship because if you want a break then for me that is a break up and a red flag down the road. What if we are married... there are no breaks.
I agree. I was thinking more about a situation where maybe something traumatic happened and the other person needs some time to themselves. Not necessarily needing a break because of problems in the relationship. Those need to be talked about and fixed, not ran away from.
But if something traumatic happens, that's when you should need your partner the most and that's when your partner should be there for you to help you through it... Relationships are snot the ups and downs, theirs, yours, and in life in general
I say "it's not hard to see that", but I didn't see much worse stuff that I should've
@1828avaava1828 The only acceptable break is when the action on the inside gets messy! That was a boxing reference but it somehow felt so wrong typing it! lol
@AndrewMG that sounded promiscuous
@1828avaava1828 It didn't come across well did it! lol Even I was aware of it as I was typing it lol
@AndrewMG it wasn’t your best work JoJo fights shortly!
@1828avaava1828 Even my standards slip every now and then lolI'm in work again tomorrow (overtime) so not sure if I'll catch it before I nod off or watch it tomorrow instead.
@AndrewMG Edmond is on a redemption story lol
@1828avaava1828 Who you got Edmen or Derek?
Shall we include it in our bet? I'll go Team Derek!
@AndrewMG sure! But don’t forget it’s 4-1
@1828avaava1828 hey trust me I haven't forgot! I still cherish the 1 lol
@AndrewMG jojo should be in a little over half hour. I should take 25 minute nap
I start work at 12 tomorrow (only doing 3 hours overtime) but as it's 2:40am UK time I might fall asleep before, so post me the result if that's ok! And I'll see it as soon as I wake up!
@AndrewMG lol what’d you say? That girl deleted our comments on GSP khabib
@1828avaava1828 Oh wow why would she do that! I can't even remember what I said other than thinking GSP in his prime gives Khabib a good fight but at 40 I can't see how he wins! This is more one sided than Ava against the Cheese girl lol
@1828avaava1828 You're picking George? lol
@AndrewMG you read that correctly @WowwGirl
@1828avaava1828 I love your loyalty! lol
@AndrewMG we love GSP!!!My dream 3 some his her and GSP🤷
Anyone's should be
@WowwGirl you know it love 💕