Sorry this will be a long post. What should I do?

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There’s more in the comment section. Please read the entire post before answering. My question is what should I do about my ex and his girlfriend stalking and harassing me online.
Before anyone says contact the police, I already did. They legally cannot do anything unless they threaten me, or harm me.

First I want you to know that I haven’t met his girlfriend. I haven’t seen her in person.

From the very beginning (2017) of my ex and his girlfriend relationship they have been taunting me, 3 years later they are still taunting me. They’ve played on my phone (I’ve changed my number), she left me weird voicemails, they’ve made fake instagram pages to watch my stories, & message me. I’ve deleted my instagram 3 or 4 times and made new ones they’ve found them, despite me blocking them before posting anything. The girlfriend had her friends, and relatives watch my instagram story (I’ve blocked all of them). They would use an app that lets you make calls, instead of showing your number you can put someone else’s number. I found this out because I would call the numbers back and the people would be completely confused when I told them I had a miss call from them. One man said he didn’t use his phone at all that day. Another was a business. Another was a law firm. In 2018 she sent me half naked pictures of herself asking me if I wanted to join them (DISGUSTING)! In 2019 I asked my ex why are they doing this. He’d lie and say he has nothing to do with it. I know it’s a lie because before I asked him that, I texted him from a texting app asking him what do I have to do to get them to let me alone. He didn’t respond, yet hours later I received a text message from his girlfriend taunting me. I didn’t use that number to contact anyone else, besides him. In 2018 he posted a picture he took of himself, with a big pit bull, in the parking lot of my old job (the job I worked at while we were together).

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In 2017 he went to the gym I used to go to while we were together and took a video in the parking lot. Throughout this time they’re making fakes pages messaging/requesting me, making fake facebook accounts messaging/requesting me. And they made a fake page of some guy, using my boyfriend’s first & last name and requested him. They also made a page of my first & middle name and requested my boyfriend. When they post on their instagram timeline they’d make the caption about me.

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Once I started working in the city, he’d tag his location of his post as the city, but the picture was taken in his bathroom at his house. (I don’t know how he knew I was working out there. I didn’t post my personal information online). She’d copy videos I post of myself, how I take my pictures, how I wear my hair. She also screen recorded a video I posted of myself on my instagram, and posted it on her instagram. In 2018 My older brother tried to talk to them, all they did was threaten him.

Answer 1

ChocoBrownieMonster

Explorer

Have you been collecting evidence? If yes, contact a lawyer.
No one should be cyberbullying you or harassing you like this online it's actually a crime.
The fact that it hasn't stopped means you need to get advice from someone legal who will likely tell you the right advice, you should keep reporting any forms of harassment to the police.

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Marilynjuana

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When it comes to legal cases, it is almost impossible to prove that this is true harassment.. The legal system is fucked up. If she wants results then she can throw tens of thousands into it and most likely lose it anyway.
ChocoBrownieMonster

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@Marilynjuana true but what does she do? This is ruining her life. I mean the only other obvious thing to do would be switching off all social media for 6months or more.
Marilynjuana

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It's absolutely ruining her life. And no matter what, the authorities will most likely dump any claims she makes because "no physical threats". I think all she can do is fully ignore, carry something to defend herself and try garner evidence that WILL be taken seriously - she claims they vandalized her car.
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ChocoBrownieMonster

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@Marilynjuana man if my police station didn't do anything, id tell them directly if they dont do anything i'll take the law into my own hands and defend myself in court like i had no choice, which would bring not only the case to court but also embarass the police. LOL. But that's me.
lovely_gem

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I’ve completely deleted my instagram account for a year. When I made a new one she made a new one. My friend messaged her, and she told my friend that she has been keeping an eye on me via facebook. I deleted my facebook. After that I stopped posting any new pictures of myself. I’d post old pictures, or memes. Now I’m not posting anything, anywhere.
ChocoBrownieMonster

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@Marilynjuana "The court can make an order or injunction that the person harassing you must stop their behaviour. If they don’t stop harassing you after the court has made an injunction against them, it's a criminal offence and they can be prosecuted in the criminal courts." I read this in UK law. The idea is to get the injunction first by filing a claim in court.
Marilynjuana

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@chocobrowniemonster If she has evidence of them vandalizing her property then absolutely she should proceed. But social media posts can easily be turned around. Same with friend requests. Stalking and harassment are VERY hard to prove.
lovely_gem

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And yes they did vandalized my car, which I called the police, which they did absolutely nothing about. Only gave me a blue piece of paper, so I won’t get a ticket if I got pulled over for not having a license plate. I’ve taken pictures. I record every fake page. I started documenting every interaction with them. I have a record of almost everything I can get. I have an entire folder dedicating to nearly all the stuff they’ve done. I even take screenshots of the post they make about me.
ChocoBrownieMonster

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"You can also ask the court for compensation if you’ve suffered financial or emotional loss - for example, if the harassment has made you feel very anxious or distressed."
ChocoBrownieMonster

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have you got a citizen's advice burea?
It's like this:
www.citizensadvice.org.uk/.../
ChocoBrownieMonster

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Also it suggests contacting your ISP to report cyberbullying so they can investigate. As they are the providors of the internet, they have the power to BLACKLIST the bullies.
Marilynjuana

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@chocobrowniemonster I won't argue about this because the question is about the OP but also do research into how many of the court cases fail because proving such matters is incredibly difficult or people simply run out of funds trying to prove it. OP, good luck. It would be smart to consult a lawyer, absolutely.
lovely_gem

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I’ve contacted the FBI. I made a report. I asked for a case number and the lady I spoke with told me I don’t get one. I asked when will someone help me. She told me it was up to the agent if they want to work my case. I reached out to a lawyer that deals with stalking and he told me since it’s cyber stalking it’s extremely hard to prove, and if I wanted to go to court I’ll have to pay out of pocket
ChocoBrownieMonster

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@Marilynjuana the organisation i used as an example provide free laywers and advice though, your saying it like losing is a bad thing. The idea is to bring them out into the open.
The other thing is to inform telephone operators that you're being bullied and then they'd also investigate and blacklist them. The harder it is for them the more reason they'll stop. As it is, i think they just carry on as they haven't been challenged.
ChocoBrownieMonster

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@lovely_gem i wouldn't know what else to do sorry, you should definetly consider going to seek counselling over this. It'd be confidential and at least you can talk to someone about it all. This may later act as evidence if needed. Sometimes it can be a case of ignoring it, blocking stuff everytime. I've found myself in situations like this and by removing myself from their playground bores them and then they move on.
lovely_gem

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I also live in the US, not the UK. I live in California too, one of the most money hungry states in the USA. I’m going to continue doing research, and see if there’s any free resources out there. I looked into counseling, boy do I need it. I’ve read so many stories and watched several documentaries, and tv shows about both men and women that’s gone through this. It seems like there’s nothing people can do. I watched this tv on hulu called obsession. There’s one episode this man was a lawyer, he helped this woman that suffers from mental illness get out of jail, for something pity. I think it was pertaining to her mental health, if I’m not mistaken. He helped her, she repaid him by stalking him. Worse than what I’m going through. I think she threatened him. Ended up getting arrested for it. She currently in jail. He moved, married, and had a son, yet she’s still stalking him from jail. They have other episodes where the person is stalking their victim from jail.

My ex also taught himself law. He has law books. That’s how he knows not to incriminate himself, and he uses her. He’s not as sloppy as she is. When he makes fake pages, he puts more time into, he works on gaining followers, (I think he pays for them too) and he spreads his posts out. He puts effort into building the page. I can still tell it’s fake. Whereas when she makes fake pages, sometimes it won’t have any post at all, sometimes it’d have post but they were all posted in one day. When I confront him about the fake pages he’d deny it flat out. Whereas she’d deny it too, but she’d say something that gives herself away in the same breath. Still not enough to go off of because they use texting apps to contact me from too.

Thank you all for your help. It seems hopeless honestly. Nonetheless I’m thankful for the time you took out of your day to assist me. I hope you and your families are safe and well doing these tragic pandemic.
lovely_gem

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ChocoBrownieMonster

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Just blank them out, i know it's not easy. But no longer confront them. Just block ignore and carry on with your life. If you know where this guy works, inform their HR department. I'd use every ammunition i can get to fight back.
ChocoBrownieMonster

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the moment you stop contacting this guy or reading anything about what he does, thats when it'll stop. Everytime you do something that will tell his girlfriend you're still interested in contacting him, the harassment will happen again. If you block him and move on with your life it will stop.
lovely_gem

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I don’t contact him in a way that shows interest. I am already in a relationship. The only time I contacted him was to ask them why they’re doing this, & to let me alone, that’s it, that’s all. & that was in March 2019. It’s been over a year since I contacted them. Everything you’re suggesting I’ve already attempted! In 2017 my instagram was deleted for a year, she watched me from my facebook. When I made a new instagram. I ignored them, that’s when they made the fake pages and requested my boyfriend on facebook. I ignored them again and they started following people I knew. It seems like when I ignore them it gets worse rather than getting better. I already blocked them. Did you read what I posted? I already did all of that. That’s why they started making fake pages. Every time I made a new page the first thing I did was block them they still found me. So this time around I decided not to block them, they still made fake pages, then they messed with my car, and after that she messaged me from her actual page trying to make amends. I then blocked him & her. After that they still made fake pages. So now I’m back at square one deleted my instagram, and wanting to make a new one. I have to have a instagram for my business. It does not stop. I’m sorry but your suggestions aren’t really helpful. Given everything that I wrote, ignoring them should have been something you thought I did already. Half the time I don’t react. Or even acknowledge their fake pages because even doing that is giving into it. I just let their fake pages sit there, and act like I didn’t see it. But I keep a record of it.
lovely_gem

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I already did all of that. That’s why they started making fake pages and requesting my boyfriend****
ChocoBrownieMonster

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hire a private investigator to dig up all their dirt. Then do the same back and they will beg that you stop. But dont stop, keep doing it however long you see fit. There's no point being all victim and hopeless. You could even pay people to pretend to be the FBI and give them a visit.

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Marilynjuana

When it comes to legal cases, it is almost impossible to prove that this is true harassment.. The legal system is fucked up. If she wants results then she can throw tens of thousands into it and most likely lose it anyway.

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ChocoBrownieMonster

@Marilynjuana true but what does she do? This is ruining her life. I mean the only other obvious thing to do would be switching off all social media for 6months or more.

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Marilynjuana

It's absolutely ruining her life. And no matter what, the authorities will most likely dump any claims she makes because "no physical threats". I think all she can do is fully ignore, carry something to defend herself and try garner evidence that WILL be taken seriously - she claims they vandalized her car.

Answer 5

ChocoBrownieMonster

@Marilynjuana man if my police station didn't do anything, id tell them directly if they dont do anything i'll take the law into my own hands and defend myself in court like i had no choice, which would bring not only the case to court but also embarass the police. LOL. But that's me.

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lovely_gem

I’ve completely deleted my instagram account for a year. When I made a new one she made a new one. My friend messaged her, and she told my friend that she has been keeping an eye on me via facebook. I deleted my facebook. After that I stopped posting any new pictures of myself. I’d post old pictures, or memes. Now I’m not posting anything, anywhere.

Answer 7

ChocoBrownieMonster

@Marilynjuana "The court can make an order or injunction that the person harassing you must stop their behaviour. If they don’t stop harassing you after the court has made an injunction against them, it's a criminal offence and they can be prosecuted in the criminal courts." I read this in UK law. The idea is to get the injunction first by filing a claim in court.

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Marilynjuana

@chocobrowniemonster If she has evidence of them vandalizing her property then absolutely she should proceed. But social media posts can easily be turned around. Same with friend requests. Stalking and harassment are VERY hard to prove.

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lovely_gem

And yes they did vandalized my car, which I called the police, which they did absolutely nothing about. Only gave me a blue piece of paper, so I won’t get a ticket if I got pulled over for not having a license plate. I’ve taken pictures. I record every fake page. I started documenting every interaction with them. I have a record of almost everything I can get. I have an entire folder dedicating to nearly all the stuff they’ve done. I even take screenshots of the post they make about me.

Answer 10

ChocoBrownieMonster

"You can also ask the court for compensation if you’ve suffered financial or emotional loss - for example, if the harassment has made you feel very anxious or distressed."

Answer 11

ChocoBrownieMonster

have you got a citizen's advice burea?
It's like this:
www.citizensadvice.org.uk/.../

Answer 12

ChocoBrownieMonster

Also it suggests contacting your ISP to report cyberbullying so they can investigate. As they are the providors of the internet, they have the power to BLACKLIST the bullies.

Answer 13

Marilynjuana

@chocobrowniemonster I won't argue about this because the question is about the OP but also do research into how many of the court cases fail because proving such matters is incredibly difficult or people simply run out of funds trying to prove it. OP, good luck. It would be smart to consult a lawyer, absolutely.

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lovely_gem

I’ve contacted the FBI. I made a report. I asked for a case number and the lady I spoke with told me I don’t get one. I asked when will someone help me. She told me it was up to the agent if they want to work my case. I reached out to a lawyer that deals with stalking and he told me since it’s cyber stalking it’s extremely hard to prove, and if I wanted to go to court I’ll have to pay out of pocket

Answer 15

ChocoBrownieMonster

@Marilynjuana the organisation i used as an example provide free laywers and advice though, your saying it like losing is a bad thing. The idea is to bring them out into the open.
The other thing is to inform telephone operators that you're being bullied and then they'd also investigate and blacklist them. The harder it is for them the more reason they'll stop. As it is, i think they just carry on as they haven't been challenged.

Answer 16

ChocoBrownieMonster

@lovely_gem i wouldn't know what else to do sorry, you should definetly consider going to seek counselling over this. It'd be confidential and at least you can talk to someone about it all. This may later act as evidence if needed. Sometimes it can be a case of ignoring it, blocking stuff everytime. I've found myself in situations like this and by removing myself from their playground bores them and then they move on.

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lovely_gem

I also live in the US, not the UK. I live in California too, one of the most money hungry states in the USA. I’m going to continue doing research, and see if there’s any free resources out there. I looked into counseling, boy do I need it. I’ve read so many stories and watched several documentaries, and tv shows about both men and women that’s gone through this. It seems like there’s nothing people can do. I watched this tv on hulu called obsession. There’s one episode this man was a lawyer, he helped this woman that suffers from mental illness get out of jail, for something pity. I think it was pertaining to her mental health, if I’m not mistaken. He helped her, she repaid him by stalking him. Worse than what I’m going through. I think she threatened him. Ended up getting arrested for it. She currently in jail. He moved, married, and had a son, yet she’s still stalking him from jail. They have other episodes where the person is stalking their victim from jail.

My ex also taught himself law. He has law books. That’s how he knows not to incriminate himself, and he uses her. He’s not as sloppy as she is. When he makes fake pages, he puts more time into, he works on gaining followers, (I think he pays for them too) and he spreads his posts out. He puts effort into building the page. I can still tell it’s fake. Whereas when she makes fake pages, sometimes it won’t have any post at all, sometimes it’d have post but they were all posted in one day. When I confront him about the fake pages he’d deny it flat out. Whereas she’d deny it too, but she’d say something that gives herself away in the same breath. Still not enough to go off of because they use texting apps to contact me from too.

Thank you all for your help. It seems hopeless honestly. Nonetheless I’m thankful for the time you took out of your day to assist me. I hope you and your families are safe and well doing these tragic pandemic.

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lovely_gem

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ChocoBrownieMonster

Just blank them out, i know it's not easy. But no longer confront them. Just block ignore and carry on with your life. If you know where this guy works, inform their HR department. I'd use every ammunition i can get to fight back.

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ChocoBrownieMonster

the moment you stop contacting this guy or reading anything about what he does, thats when it'll stop. Everytime you do something that will tell his girlfriend you're still interested in contacting him, the harassment will happen again. If you block him and move on with your life it will stop.

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lovely_gem

I don’t contact him in a way that shows interest. I am already in a relationship. The only time I contacted him was to ask them why they’re doing this, & to let me alone, that’s it, that’s all. & that was in March 2019. It’s been over a year since I contacted them. Everything you’re suggesting I’ve already attempted! In 2017 my instagram was deleted for a year, she watched me from my facebook. When I made a new instagram. I ignored them, that’s when they made the fake pages and requested my boyfriend on facebook. I ignored them again and they started following people I knew. It seems like when I ignore them it gets worse rather than getting better. I already blocked them. Did you read what I posted? I already did all of that. That’s why they started making fake pages. Every time I made a new page the first thing I did was block them they still found me. So this time around I decided not to block them, they still made fake pages, then they messed with my car, and after that she messaged me from her actual page trying to make amends. I then blocked him & her. After that they still made fake pages. So now I’m back at square one deleted my instagram, and wanting to make a new one. I have to have a instagram for my business. It does not stop. I’m sorry but your suggestions aren’t really helpful. Given everything that I wrote, ignoring them should have been something you thought I did already. Half the time I don’t react. Or even acknowledge their fake pages because even doing that is giving into it. I just let their fake pages sit there, and act like I didn’t see it. But I keep a record of it.

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lovely_gem

I already did all of that. That’s why they started making fake pages and requesting my boyfriend****

Answer 23

ChocoBrownieMonster

hire a private investigator to dig up all their dirt. Then do the same back and they will beg that you stop. But dont stop, keep doing it however long you see fit. There's no point being all victim and hopeless. You could even pay people to pretend to be the FBI and give them a visit.

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zombear

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Not sure how legal action in the US is like but couldn't you be able to sue them?

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Marilynjuana

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Thing is what she is talking about is just pictures, vids, social media posts etc. Sure creepy but not enough for a legal case.
lovely_gem

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I thought of that too. Unfortunately you can’t sue someone for cyber-stalking you.
zombear

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Could you file a restraining order? Would that even do anything? I don't know I feel like there has to be some sort of consequences for their acts
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lovely_gem

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I could get a restraining order, BUT I’ve been doing a lot of research, and in A LOT of cases women ended up getting killed by their ex/ex husband they put the restraining order on. I don’t think it’d go that far. I just don’t want to chance it. I would also have to let them know every time I get a job, when I move, and if I were to go back to school I would have to tell them what school I’m attending. Which is like giving them ammunition.
ChocoBrownieMonster

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@zombear know what you're saying before you advise someone. smh
zombear

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I just throwing out ideas, chill out dude lol

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Marilynjuana

Thing is what she is talking about is just pictures, vids, social media posts etc. Sure creepy but not enough for a legal case.

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lovely_gem

I thought of that too. Unfortunately you can’t sue someone for cyber-stalking you.

Answer 27

zombear

Could you file a restraining order? Would that even do anything? I don't know I feel like there has to be some sort of consequences for their acts

Answer 28

lovely_gem

I could get a restraining order, BUT I’ve been doing a lot of research, and in A LOT of cases women ended up getting killed by their ex/ex husband they put the restraining order on. I don’t think it’d go that far. I just don’t want to chance it. I would also have to let them know every time I get a job, when I move, and if I were to go back to school I would have to tell them what school I’m attending. Which is like giving them ammunition.

Answer 29

ChocoBrownieMonster

@zombear know what you're saying before you advise someone. smh

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zombear

I just throwing out ideas, chill out dude lol

Answer 31

Marilynjuana | 340 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Yoda

Don't give them anything to feed off of. Don't delete your pages, don't react, don't care. Live your life and completely ignore them and what they do. Let them be desperate all they want, it's quite pathetic to read, you keep on living a good life.

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lovely_gem

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Thank you. I’ve tried that. They’ve found some of my old friends, I didn’t introduce him to them, but we followed each other while I was dating him. She found my first boyfriend instagram, I never told him about him. I don’t even know how they found him, I haven’t had contact with him in years, & his government name was nowhere on his account. I know for a fact they don’t know. He also found my younger half sister (I didn’t grow up with her) he followed her as well. I asked her if she knew him, and she said she didn’t. I’m scared to follow people I know personally. If they can find people I haven’t had contact with in years, they can easily make fake pages and follow them.
Marilynjuana

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How is this even real. Don't these people have jobs, hobbies, anything. I'd try laugh it off and apologise to anyone who is affected by them, but gosh, they really are obsessed with you!
lovely_gem

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That’s the same thing I thought! I figured they have multiple devices, and she obviously gets her family members to help her! It’s so sickening. I can’t wrap my head around it. I don’t even know how or why they do half the stuff they do. I’d only known him from a little over a year before dating him. The real
kicker is, we only dated for four month! I haven’t reached out to some of the people they followed; like two of my childhood friends, my old college friend, and my first boyfriend because I haven’t spoken to them in years. I don’t know who they are today, you know? All of this nonsense going on with my ex & his girlfriend has made it really hard for me to trust people, and for me to make connections with people. I often question my current long term friends, I wonder if they’re in on it. I’m a paranoid mess.
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lovely_gem

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Marilynjuana

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They're sick. I think genuinely sick. Try not to let it affect you, carry pepper spray with you at all times just to be safe. It does the trick if anything ever happens, which is unlikely because they also come off as total cowards. Really sorry this is happening..
lovely_gem

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I didn’t add ALL the stuff they’ve done. In April I went to a safeway by my house. Ironically I live less than 2 miles away from his girlfriend. I just so happened to park directly behind her younger sister. We didn’t exchange words. We exchanged glances. I was walking away from my car, and she was walking towards the car she drove in. The next day my license plates was aggressively ripped off my car. There was a piece of the plastic—the part that you put over the plate, left attached to my car. One of them wrote someone with their finger on the back of my car, where the license plate once was. I couldn’t make out what it said. All I can make of it was it started with a B, and too long to be the word b****. There was a creepy drawing on the hood of my car. And a hand print on the driver rear side of my window. I called the police (this is all during covid-19, protesting, rioting, and looting by the way, which I still had to work in) an officer came over, gave me a paper just in chance I got pulled over I wouldn’t get a ticket. I told him everything that’s been going on, showed him my car, & everything. All he did was shake his head and chuckled. 3 days later I started receiving several calls from out of state auto shops. I don’t know how they got my number. It was fairly new, and I didn’t give it out. I have another number I give to people.
Marilynjuana

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This is soooo fucked up. Do anything you can to garner evidence. Maybe a neighbor has a security cam outside and they might have been caught on it, anything.
lovely_gem

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Yap! I parked in front of a neighbor’s house that had cameras. I felt like I finally had proof the police could do something with. I wrote my neighbor’s a letter. They never got back to me. One day I saw their daughter coming out. I spoke to her. She told me the lens were dirty, so they don’t have the tape. LOL. I left it alone.

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lovely_gem

Thank you. I’ve tried that. They’ve found some of my old friends, I didn’t introduce him to them, but we followed each other while I was dating him. She found my first boyfriend instagram, I never told him about him. I don’t even know how they found him, I haven’t had contact with him in years, & his government name was nowhere on his account. I know for a fact they don’t know. He also found my younger half sister (I didn’t grow up with her) he followed her as well. I asked her if she knew him, and she said she didn’t. I’m scared to follow people I know personally. If they can find people I haven’t had contact with in years, they can easily make fake pages and follow them.

Answer 33

Marilynjuana

How is this even real. Don't these people have jobs, hobbies, anything. I'd try laugh it off and apologise to anyone who is affected by them, but gosh, they really are obsessed with you!

Answer 34

lovely_gem

That’s the same thing I thought! I figured they have multiple devices, and she obviously gets her family members to help her! It’s so sickening. I can’t wrap my head around it. I don’t even know how or why they do half the stuff they do. I’d only known him from a little over a year before dating him. The real
kicker is, we only dated for four month! I haven’t reached out to some of the people they followed; like two of my childhood friends, my old college friend, and my first boyfriend because I haven’t spoken to them in years. I don’t know who they are today, you know? All of this nonsense going on with my ex & his girlfriend has made it really hard for me to trust people, and for me to make connections with people. I often question my current long term friends, I wonder if they’re in on it. I’m a paranoid mess.

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lovely_gem

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Answer 36

Marilynjuana

They're sick. I think genuinely sick. Try not to let it affect you, carry pepper spray with you at all times just to be safe. It does the trick if anything ever happens, which is unlikely because they also come off as total cowards. Really sorry this is happening..

Answer 37

lovely_gem

I didn’t add ALL the stuff they’ve done. In April I went to a safeway by my house. Ironically I live less than 2 miles away from his girlfriend. I just so happened to park directly behind her younger sister. We didn’t exchange words. We exchanged glances. I was walking away from my car, and she was walking towards the car she drove in. The next day my license plates was aggressively ripped off my car. There was a piece of the plastic—the part that you put over the plate, left attached to my car. One of them wrote someone with their finger on the back of my car, where the license plate once was. I couldn’t make out what it said. All I can make of it was it started with a B, and too long to be the word b****. There was a creepy drawing on the hood of my car. And a hand print on the driver rear side of my window. I called the police (this is all during covid-19, protesting, rioting, and looting by the way, which I still had to work in) an officer came over, gave me a paper just in chance I got pulled over I wouldn’t get a ticket. I told him everything that’s been going on, showed him my car, & everything. All he did was shake his head and chuckled. 3 days later I started receiving several calls from out of state auto shops. I don’t know how they got my number. It was fairly new, and I didn’t give it out. I have another number I give to people.

Answer 38

Marilynjuana

This is soooo fucked up. Do anything you can to garner evidence. Maybe a neighbor has a security cam outside and they might have been caught on it, anything.

Answer 39

lovely_gem

Yap! I parked in front of a neighbor’s house that had cameras. I felt like I finally had proof the police could do something with. I wrote my neighbor’s a letter. They never got back to me. One day I saw their daughter coming out. I spoke to her. She told me the lens were dirty, so they don’t have the tape. LOL. I left it alone.

Sorry this will be a long post. What should I do?

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