I agree completely.by the way I had asked this girl to edit my resume. She did, but I noticed in the ENTIRE thing, there wasn't ONE positive thing said. Some of the comments were also rude, almost like she was talking down to me. Was she jealous or something? I thought she's just trying to show that she knows something to feel superior. It was kind of silly I mean she's wasting her time doing someone a favour and not really warranting real appreciation from them because of her own actions. Needless to say I didn't even say thank you
I don't know about your situation because I'd have to see what she actually wrote and maybe even know something about her personality to know if she was at least *in her mind* trying to help or whether as you suggest, she had other motives like jealousy. I've done some editing myself, and there are times when I've had to say, this needs a total overhaul and wouldn't pass muster where you're sending it---that's not to hurt them, but the reality of the knowledge I have from the inside. I think if it still matters to you, you can sit down with her and ask her to walk you through her comments and ask if there was anything positive she had to say about it. I think then you'll really understand what side of the line she falls on in terms of her attitude.
So there was this annoying bitch, who really got to me for some reason. I think we were sitting and talking and she asked me if I knew someone. I feigned ignorance and said I didn't. I did, but I didn't really want to tell her which I mean it's none of her business anyways. So I noticed later on she sneaked in this catty comment about jealous people which was aimed at me. I was not jealous of the girl she mentioned. But I couldnt' fathom that she had the guts to actually say that to me and felt like telling her to go to hell. I didn't. And I asked myself why? And the real reason, I think is because I really think that if some of these people believe they're better and I stand up for myself they will create a scene and try to talk down etc. so I don't. If that makes sense.
Of course it does she feels safe in a chat cause she can't see you or anything in a normal conversation she's felt safe best thing you can do is walk up to her call her out and tell her at least you're not so afraid of her like she is of you she went behind your back like a, sorry for this word, like a little scared cunt you and you looked dead at her when you call her out you don't have to hide
Oh no no it was in person. We were all sitting at a table I couldn't believe her nerve.
The thing is I have a habit of being sympathetic-maybe too much so. So I truly wondered was it my fault-in terms of did she feel offended that I acted as though I didn't know someone and was not honest with her about it. But I ask myself what would I do in that situation-I think I would just say oh okay yeah it's weird you know because everyone who knows people from that year know her. Something like that, and leave it at that. I don't think I would stoop so low as to sneak an insulting comment in.Do you think she was jealous of me in some way? That fucking bitch
Seems like she is but don't worry about offending people there always going to be someone who'll be offended regardless we have free speech not free speech as long as it's not offensive where do you draw the line
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This is what I think-I am very intelligent in real life. That being said, something happened which destructed my educational journey. So now I think these people think that they're better than me because even an oaf might know more if they're given the right resources.
you'll be fine, an educational life can start whenever you want it to... it is never destroyed..
i had this girl look over my resume, and she did not say ONE good thing about it. Some of the comments include criticisms about dates not being consistent etc. blah blah blah. It made me wonder, most people don't really like being criticized even when asking for help. I could think of only two reasons she acted this way: 1. She's jealous 2. She was trying to show me that she knows so much or something lol. I think it's both. I didn't respond is that enough salt to the wound? I didn't say thanks for looking it over.
How so? I have trouble reading signals so to speak
hmm, like when they belittle others and talk themselves up.
Hmm. But that's very specific.