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Thanks, I hope you are doing well.
Better now that i just cut something toxic out of my life
Same. Im an ambivert
Thanks, I hope you are alright.
Yeah. I’ve been super busy, but things are going well.
You can, you just talk the bare necessary and not get friendly with people. That's what I do.
Don't assume. Some can actually be alone. And there is nothing wrong with that.
@btbc92 Sure there are plenty of people who are lone, but it doesn't feel good to be alone and is unhealthy. My one brother is a researcher and principal investigator for mental health. He told me the number one most common cause of depression is loneliness.
Again you are missing the point. There are some people that are actually able to be alone. It's not about the feeling of being alone. And it's not always unhealthy. You can't always believe what is being told to you even if it is your own brother. You got to remember that he's under the condition of science. Which means that he has no choice but to go based on what they want him to say is scientific evidence. But you're not like other people. So it's not wise to try to judge as if those two people are in fact depressed or lonely. I have dealt with both sides of the coin. And I can safely tell you that is not the same.
Well but there are people that can't stand being too much in company of other people. It's tiring.
@btbc92 I know exactly what the question was. Go ahead and be alone for the rest of your life and lets see how happy you are. Yeah you can be alone and tolerate and but its not a good idea and it is never healthy. Someone can drink every once in a blue moon and never develop health problems but if you even do it moderately and a lot its unhealthy. We all needs to be alone every once in a while. If you do it to that point you will drive yourself off the wall. Yes its good to see things from a scientific perspective. That's how you should see things. That's the great thing about science and actually following its proper steps. You can't say something is true unless you can keep on reproducing the same results over and over and over again.
The question was why are people afraid of being alone where as others crave it? Crave meaning you want it. When you make something a want you are implying and obviously stating that you like to be alone and all the time. Either this question was not properly asked in the most grammatical way or something else.
I don't know what is your personal problem is. But I can safely tell you I have been a long time ago in my entire life. I had to learn to be content with that because at the end of the day I have to love me.It just sounds like to me you going to type this afraid to actually be alone. And there's nothing wrong with that. But don't use it as an excuse to not improve and be yourself either. John the Baptist was alone for years, prophesying and teaching the things of God, waiting on the Messiah to one day return. Many prophets have always been alone. And God has sometimes allowed people to be alone in order for them to be able to learn and do what they got to do because it's about the growth.Science first of all is controlled by people. It is not how we should see things that's why people are conditioned and that's why a lot of people are stuck in their ways and that's why they don't change. They tell you to be open-minded but in actuality they singing being open-minded to the conditioning they want to manipulate you with. If you want to deal with actual science then you got to experience it out in the real world. Not based on what they want to tell you a so-called experts and they don't want that. Braum's themselves. They are not Gods they're human beings. I can safely tell you that it's untrue because again I have dealt with both sides of the coin. I understand exactly what it is. You got to have higher intelligence than that. Not that of a simple minded person.
If you take a look at what I have wrote in my OP then you understand exactly what the question is talking about. You can crave all sorts of things but you got to get to the root of why you are craving it. The word it just fine. It has nothing to do with anything grammatical. You're just not fully understanding it. You're not looking at the big picture. You only looking at what you see in front of you and that is a good way for you to God forbid fail. Some people are genetically wired to do what they do and it's not always a bad thing. As an introvert myself just to show proof. I can have my family certain family. And friends and be quite happy. But I need my space. If I don't have my space I'm not happy. I need time to think. I need time to explore. I need time to recharge. I need time to really be myself. It does not mean that I'm not myself without the people per se. But that I am at my best self when I am by myself. I could go for hours and days by myself and still be happy. You got to have inner peace within yourself. A lot of people don't have that so they find ways to disrupt other people peace. And sensitive Souls can end up being greatly affected by it so it not only hypothetically speaking Rock their world, it causes a lot of mental problems. So a lot of these so-called scientists Don't Know Jack squat. No offense to your brother because it's not really his fault. That's what the upper Elites want him to think. I have no doubt that he is a fantastic researcher. But he has to know when there is bias and we're there isn't.
The question is meant as it is.For example, my fiancée can't stay alone for a minute, while I'd stay alone 24/7 if I could.Also @blondfrog, I also notice that you called me a "lying sac of sh*t".I will remember that.
@btbc92 I like how you are playing the victim here instead of just ignoring me or saying I was wrong. Okay you just went all over the place. Ironic isn't that you just made an assumption about me? How do you know that I don't improve myself? I am not going to get into a religious argument with you because that is not what this topic was about. By the way you know how defensive you are coming off of right now? You clearly don't understand the difference between want and need. So I don't what's more ironic here. You replying to my comment and then assuming I am coming off as angry or saying I have a problem , or you assuming I haven't improved my life even though you dont' know a single thing about me. Science is controlled by people yes. You could say the same about religion. At least it is now. I am not talking about if religion wasn't controlled by people in the past. It is now and with thousands of years passing by you can see how many times religions have been edited. Especially in Christianity. I mean its one thing to have a religion lose some wordings due to changed translation, but wow it seems like every 20 or something years they come up with new versions of the bible. Science if practiced right cannot say something doesn't exist without proof. It can only say something exists or is true by again like I said proof. How hypothesis tests, running back and fourth running those same tests again in different environments, creating blind vs un blind expedients. Something you see being done in every clinical trial regarding testing for new diseases. A whole bunch of other things, but those are the main ones.
No, I say you are so quick to take offensive because it's out of your comfort zone. It is nothing religious about what I had to say. And neither was I coming off the fences. You took it that way. So that's not my problem. What I'm saying is for you to stop coming off an ignorance. What you're talking about is not practice right. It's biased. If you can't tell the difference between what is bias and was actually fact, then the one who has a problem is not me it's actually you.
And I didn't go all over the place, I actually proved my point. Religion have nothing to do with it. These people lived in those times, experience with the experience, and the Bible is the account of those experiences. Whether you believe them or not it's your personal business. But what you don't have the right to not do is to discount the experiences of others. I can do the same research tasks, and I promise you that nine out of 10 times they will not allow it to be peer-reviewed because it will be considered not science. This has nothing to do about having tests done with blind experiments in unblind experiments. It is a simple fact that again that is a major difference between depression and loneliness. Learn to think and use your head. Learn to think with your brain. If you want to be analytical be prepared to ask questions and question things. You are taking things bass out of a False Consensus bias and that's what the problem is. You're biased with what is being said because you are the one that obviously has a problem with that. Everything Changes in life. And at the body who's already studying psychology now you should already know about the scientific thought. So obviously know you are very much wrong and these are basics of psychology.
Coming off defensive*
And first of all who ever said that I was speaking about you? So if you're saying that I blamed you when I didn't and there's no proof that I ever did blame you. And that's says right there that you already admitted where you have a problem at. Don't need reverse psychology for that one.
@btbc92 "But don't use it as an excuse to not improve and be yourself either". You said that not me. You made a blatant accusation of me. You did involve religion in it the texts are right there. That's the great thing about texts vs in real life. Your texts are right there. Anyways this is going nowhere and I dont even know why your talking about getting defensive when you are the one who replied to me and clearly took offense to what I had to say. Case in point you downvoted me as well.
And all of a sudden you are a grammar nazi? "It just sounds like to me you going to type this afraid to actually be alone" you typed that. Tell me if that makes sense? Lol I think not. I caught plenty of other grammar and spelling errors you made as well. I am done replying by the way, cause I actually have a life outside of GAG. Go ahead and get the last word in. Cause i know if I keep replying to you will just keep replying back. Loneliness is not something anybody actually likes. If your around your family then that doesn't count. What I clearly said was like three times now was that its okay to want to be alone every once in a while but nobody wants to always be alone. If your too stupid to tell the difference than that's is on you.
*then that is on you.
Again, I don't know what your problem is. GOD is not a religion. He is a real person, a real God, with emotions and feelings of his own. And he has his own thoughts on the matter. Our ways are not his ways and his ways are not our ways. And you are still missing the point. First of all again if you find that to be as me actually addressing it to to you then you are actually admitting as I said before that you're not improving yourself. So you might as well just admit that you aren't instead of acting like you are. Because I can tell how you're speaking to me you're stuck in your own ways instead of actually learning something from it. I'm not getting defensive. I am correcting you. If you don't like the correction that's your issue. It's not my issue. Actually again you don't know what some people like or don't like. I think the Asker pretty much just told you that and you still disrespected him. Like I said you don't know if anybody really likes being alone. You just want to make a fact out of something that isn't true. I actually know people who like being alone. They don't have much friends and they're fine. If you find that so hard to believe that's yours this is. Nobody's here to try to change your opinion. But don't try to make out like your opinion is but a fact it just because you want to relate what your brother had said. You need to get out the box and start learning things. Period. That's the point. And if you don't understand that still, then again you're basically wasting everybody else's time with it. Not me.
@btbc92 Fell into my trap like a little mouse. Told you you were going to reply back to me. Think what you want I am actually very open minded. This is one of those things though that have proven. I know its not common knowledge but can't you use common sense and do your own research? You can really search just about any scholar article that you want. If anything I am being the opposite of close minded. Again you are making assumptions that are so far off. This is why I am laughing right now. The few interactions I have had with you aren't clear enough for me to tell you how your personality is. That is another big difference between me and you. I won't make assumptions about someone and I certainly don't get so offended that I reply to other people's comments on here and down vote people. I remember you from a few years ago speaking to you. Good on you for at least recognizing that you can believing in a god without believing in a religion. So I will give props for that. At least I have strong supported opinions about my statement with non bias scientific backed up data. Where as you are just talking about feelings or going based off what people tell you how they feel.
As long as you don't insult people.
What trap? Your being too ignorant and think I will shut up and fall for it? I stop because I want and need to. Not for your stupid nonsense.
I'm not going based on Feelings. I do research all the time. That's how I know what your talking about is nonsense. There is a reason many say I would be a great psychologist. Because I KNOW.
This is going a bit overboard, I might close down this thread.