Guys, do you often think rationally?

My boyfriend and I is at the stage where we’re figuring things out if we want to take a step further together (marriage etc) as he is moving away. And sometimes there’s massive tension as we have issues here and there. We’ve only been serious the last 9mths.
We were in a seminar recently and they have events thats coming up in the next 2 years. He asked if I want to do that for his and my birthday next year (7mths out) + vacation at the same time.
I feel like he’s planning ahead things for us despite all the uncertainty now. Like when we have arguments he’ll share how he isn’t sure but then he also plans a lot of things for us like.

this is just his fear/ excitement talking and not being rational? Lol
Guys, do you often think rationally?
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