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I agree. Maybe go to doctors for a blood test.Meat really helps boost testosterone, and masculine behaviour, and winning helps.
@Warmapplecrumble Nah he doesn't need to go to the Doctors.T-Booster supplements and working out hard. Also eating the right foods which can and will enhance your sex drive. But your not wrong on the masculine behavior or winning part either.
My masculine behavior is mostly working late-night or stay up late reading and chainsmoking.Sometimes I play chess on the computer or exercise a bit - bike, excursions or jogging, but no swimmng.
Exercise more with weights that will help.
What's your diet? I think blood test might be a good thing.
@Warmapplecrumble I don't eat a lot, mostly tea and biscuits or a little of what I cook.I cook a lot for my fiancée but I don't eat a lot, I don't have much appetite
Seems like you have deficiencies as well, do you take multivitamin?
@Warmapplecrumble yes, I've had vitamim deficiencies so I take vitamins in candy/pill form
@Jean-Marie_Céline how is your weight, your food seems quite little, are you eating enough calories, carbohydrates, fats to keep you going?
@Warmapplecrumble currently I weight 60kg, some days I try to eat more but not always.To not worry my fiancée I tell her I ate more at work
Not sure if the RDAs I saw are correct online. But you have to eat a balanced diet with the vitamins. They are not 100 percent RDA. Even if they were you still need to eat more as it might not be absorbed easily. Why do you not eat food properly, you should go to a doctor, it's not good for your body, you will get sick.
@Warmapplecrumble I mostly lack appetite, I like cooking but I don't like eating.
Well if all you eat is tea and biscuits then you definitely need to be eating more and a balanced intake of food at that. And if your not hungry then you gotta train you body to be.
I tried to force myself to eat, but it's not easy. I mostly eat in front of my fiancée because if I don't eat in front of her she gets angry.But if she's working and I'm eating alone, it's something liquid with biscuits, maybe some fruit or cocoa with no sugar if I feel particularly gluttonous.
Well I'm not saying you have to force a meal down your throat or anything but you should force yourself to eat a little more then usual at during the times you want to normally eat meals and as you eat your body will get used to getting food at those specific times and come to expect it. In theory it should help with eating.Working out helps to because you will be hungry your body will crave food.
Yeah I agree
Sorry but I cannot disagree more.A person could have a number of psychological, physical issues or a trauma that prevent him from getting aroused by a woman. It is certainly not always the fault of women if men fail to get aroused. You should also look into medical issue rather than automatically blame it on women. Your reasoning is too simplistic and sexist.
@grega239 ... and in case you wonder, I am the one that downvoted you based on your reply!
@SueShe there can be a number of medical issues that would explain it but the question is about lust in relationships.My comment comes from my own experience. Because my ex complained about lack of sex yet did nothing to make me want it. I infact do not wonder where the down votes come from, for I fail to care about them
So basically, you are blaming your girlfriend for your lack of libido? how convenient!Searching the fault with the others and not with oneself is a very cheap way to address the problem. I am sorry that you had to experience that issue and that you reacted very simplistically by putting the fault on your spouse.Perhaps that a visit to a professional would have helped solve a problem that occurs mainly in the head.
@SueShe when did I mention my libido?I was talking about lust (as it's the topic of the conversation).If a woman can't make me want her , that is indeed her problem. I don't need any help with regards to my sex drive.And you sound just like my ex. Blaming me for being unattracted to a woman, while doing nothing to help correct the situation.And aren't you doing the same thing you accuse me of doing by saying that I need some kind of help for not being lustful towards my ex.
Okay, I guess you are triggered now. Let's end this conversation as it is leading nowhere.Have a great day nevertheless :-)
@SueShe how am I triggered?I just don't understand why I as a man, am blamed for the lack of lust if the woman doesn't contribute.
You know that lust is associated with libido, right.Lust is driven by physical desire. This initial burst of sexual desire happens when key regions of the brain like the amygdala and hypothalamus are activated. These are the regions that provoke the sex drive and release estrogen and androgen, the necessary hormones for libido.Therefore, if you lack lust you also lack libido and sex drive.
@SueShe yes fine it's my fault. What was I thinking, not being sexually aroused by a woman... how very dare I
What if there's unwillingness to do that too?There's not some chemical/food or emotional remedy?
But, Why I am still single and never had a lust relation?
You need love and lust in a relationship the fact you said lust relationship only is problem why you are single
Haha, Thank you
Well, sadly, not we don't. I think what you meant to say was, "men always are SUPPOSED to have lust in a relationship, and if they don't, something is wrong with the relationship, and not necessarily with the man."