Is 13 years a lot time to start forgiving someone?

Anonymous
My boyfriend started forgiving someone this year.

The offense was committed in 2007. He tried to forgive in 2010, only to confirm his suspicious that the offender was fake/insincere in the apology, kept talking garbage about him behind his back and continue repeating the same offense multiple times over the years.

He never got a real apology/closure but has recently decided to close the chapter and let it go. He only decided to let it go (whether they're sorry or not) for his own health. He said he kept punishing himself by not letting go. Still was 13 years a lot of time spent?
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