My thoughts exactly. If someone cheats that's it, we're done and you're not going to ever get a second chance from me. You've lost me for good because I take cheating as one of the biggest betrayals when it comes to relationships. They must learn from this and understand why it's wrong. Learn how this affected me and how it could affect your next potential partner and don't hurt them like you hurt me, and then maybe you can find peace and love in your life.
I think the same. I'd never cheat oIn a relationship, so I'd never accept anything less than I'm willing to give. I wouldn't be able to move on from the hurt of the betrayal if the person was still in my life , because I'd never be able to trust them again.
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Glad you weren't offended by my old fashioned sensibilities. I could never resent a partner for doing that, but the ❤ is too fragile too through in the blender and hit shcrapey'😭
I mean if drug addicts, alcoholics, and the like are able to be given second chances and are able to change I believe a cheater can do the same, just won't be with me lol. If you cheat on me, it's over, learn your lesson from breaking my heart and don't do it to someone else.
I guess we should clarify relationship. Someone you date casually, or been with a couple months, or a fiance with a week too tie the knot. How deeply invested is this relationship?
I guess someone you have deeply invested feelings in, someone that you would want to marry. Length of time doesn't really matter to me in that regard. I've been with my boyfriend for only 3 months and I love him deeply and I do want to marry him, I've never felt like this with anyone. If the cheated on me I doubt I would pursue any relationships for a long, long time.
In that case, when asked why they strayed, "I don't know" would probably be the wrong answer.
Right. There's no "I don't know". You wanted to do it, so you did it. It's a choice. It's up to them to decide if they want to change their ways or continue living a miserable existence.
Agreed. I think you could give Dr. Ruth a run for her money in syndicated television.😁
Thank you 😁
Not going to change**
Thank you ☺️
Your a weed girl
Hey, you never know 😂
Not something I'd be willing to risk.
Well I used to be a smoker but I quit smoking. So maybe that means something? 😂 I don't know.
@420Rachel it just means people change when they want to
I got you. I do think that people can change, if they want to.
Wise on your end
Ya like stealing from the cash register while being a cashier because the security of the job but you deserve more. Makes sense.
@Redblue7889 never said it had to make sense. I just know people like that.
Thanks for the like
You're only 18. Say that again when you're 65 or something.
Why does it matter what my age is are you saying I can't have any regrets? Age doesn't make you more mature your mindset and what you've been through does
"What you've been through". This is precisely what I'm talking about here. I'm saying you're only 18, so I don't really believe you when you say that you would never do it again. I think right now you might feel bad, but after two or three years in a relationship, or after being married for ten, you might give in to temptation again
First off if I ever felt like cheating again I would just break up with the person I'm with and why would I stay married for 10 years then cheat? It's childish and against my beliefs so
I'm saying many people said they wouldn't, and in fact, they promised it in front of many people when taking their vows, and they still did it afterwards.
I'm not saying "you're definitely a cheater", but I'm saying your words don't carry much weight right now. If you can say that you never again cheated a couple of decades from now, it might mean something
Well ig that makes sense people do lie all the time