First of all, you are a very powerful person since you managed to go through all of this pain and stand firm. Hats off to you.I just wanted to say that this guy was clearly a bad fruit. But not all men are like this, some men are extremely loyal, committed, and will always put their significant other first.I hope that you will meet one soon, but in the meantime, please don't lose the good light inside of you, don't let that guy succeed by changing your good person. And trust me, a good man will appreciate and respect you at all times, there is no acceptable excuses for a man to disrespect his woman, not a single one. Now you know the red flags, and you can differentiate between the good and the bad fruits.
What if only you knew that the relationship is over and not him?
Then I wouldn`t cheat. It`s like I said, it has to be mutual and if he still cares for me I would never betray his trust. Because not only will his heart break, but I cannot be so selfish that I take away his ability to trust others after me, just because I don`t want him anymore. I would expect the same behavior from him, but I can`t control other`s choices.
That's nice then. I loved the "Because not only will his heart break, but I cannot be so selfish that I take away his ability to trust others after me" part.
Wow. Major respect to you, sir.
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Not to mention the obvious fact that it's just wrong and I would never feel right about it.
I think they realize. They're pieces of shit, is all
Not always true. I compromised a lot to be with my ex, cause I thought he was sweet and gentle and I guess a 'low hanging fruit'. He still cheated lol. There's just some bad people in the world, that's all.
Well tbh I think guys and girls who cheat just have something in their head that tells them they will never be good enough or are too good for someone. I would hate to be in or the cause of that situation. So ofc I wouldn't cheat.
@Acidgamer That's one way to look at it for sure!
So you mean I should take it as a compliment if my man is only loyal because he can’t her another pussy? Lmao, fucking clown 🤡
If all you thing you are is a pussy, then yea you need every compliment you can get
If all you are** fkin autofill
There's no "being faithful most of the time". You either are faithful or you're not, period
This is a person anyone should avoid. Feel bad for the guy if you are in a relationship.
@H3xaD3x at least I’m not cheating
That's technically masked cheating, it has the same effect.
In that situation, I'd simply leave, not continue with a relationship with someone I hate
Once your married it a bit different. Separation doesn't mean the end of cohabitation in some cases. I was also in the military at the time so i was obligated to provide room and board until the divorce was final.
Yeah, I don't think it's considered cheating if you're married but separated, to be honest. It's like breaking up but without the papers to prove it
Trust me this is not true. I know people who are extremely loyal to their significant other and would never cheat under any circumstance. They perceive their marriage as a holy bond that should be valued and respected at all times. And they do it out of true love to their significant other.Maybe you met the wrong ones throughout your life, but it is really worth the wait to find the right one. Generalizing will hurt you since you will miss out the good ones and misjudge them based on your past experience.
But 90% haven't voted yes?