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Assuming you're implying that a pre-established IRL relationship has better chances of success - I disagree. I've had a relationship start online and go on for a whole year before we met in Peru (she's from Brazil, I'm in the states). Ended up being absolutely worth it. I've also had a relationship that started IRL and went to pretty much non-existent when we were away. Like anything, it's going to vary person to person.
@StupidWiseman after meeting in Peru what did you do? How long did it last? How many times did you actually meet?
@StupidWiseman You are answering on the basis of your own experience. I am answering on the basis of advising thousands of people on this site and probably hundreds who have asked for advice about LDRs. Also, you are 29 years old and the person asking this question may be only 18. I's okay that you disagree but I'll stand on what I've already said.
Even if the relationship was established in real life then got separated, there is still a very low chance of the relationship surviving. You need to understand that a long term long distance relationship is severely unfulfilling Ans meanwhile you have lots of appealing options around you that are so tempting. It’s the type of relationship where you put in more effort to make it work than to enjoy the relationship. Some people are attracted to that aspect. They like the chase. But I can say with confidence that most folks won’t be happy doing a online long distance relationship.
@nella965 Absolutely correct!
I dated her for 2 years online but she stopped coming online so now i won’t do anything like that again
@DayDreamingPHd haha omg thats a fucking savage
@phronesis14 For sure. xx
I really love itAnd am good at it We go out together but online also keep up to date with yourself let know every of ur moves always carry her along don't lie to her, don't do anything you feel she will not like if she's with you 🙈😜
@phronesis14 You understand they Have a Heart and Blood then, Just like the other ones Outside the web. xx
If You wonder why were so far apart, even if we're so in Love, we're in the middle of Schooling. College. It holds us away. Otherwise, I'd already be Married to Her ❤️❤️
It ends in a crushing blow and there's nothing that matters after so I'd put the effort on something worth something
Can’t believe I got a Thumbs down. Some weird people here.
Touching and banging is not part of a friendship or a chat buddy-ship. It is part of a real relationship unless both parties are asexual.
It's a part of real relationship. But those people who don't keep sex as a top priority will not care about the distance cause their top priority in a relation is love
Intimacy is not equal to sex!But if you think you are in a relationship when you're sitting alone in front of your screen and you don't actually share life experiences, then I'm happy for you.
Well if to you a relationship means banging each other all the time and doing each and everything from pooping to sleeping together without any alone time, then you don't have any individuality. I have no idea how such people get over break ups after being like siamese twins once
Oh wow, you have some effed up views about relationships. Yeah maybe Skype ones are the ones for you.
Oh did the clingy sex crazed girl with no individuality get offended when i described her relationship? I was right. Break ups must be real hard if you acted like one person all the time
And again. Your views are fucked up.I'm talking about experiences like going for a midnight stroll when the first snow starts to fall, hiking together and watching the sunset and the rabbits on the field playing, eating kebab at 4am after a night of clubbing with friends and talking about quantum physics etc This you will NEVER experience through the webcam.Peace!
Hmmph. I got it. You don't even know what an ldr is. It's not meeting through Skype all the time idiot. It's for people with individuality who don't wanna lose their soulmate because of some distance, not that you would understand. It's all about waiting for that one week or even a day to do all the stuff you wanted to do together and jump on each other like rabbits. It's about knowing how much you love each other because you don't allow the distance to ruin it. It about realising how much the other person means to you when you cry after a week long of being together and it's time to leave. It about knowing that all those pains don't matter because at the end, you will spend your entire life with your love. But those are for people with great self control and individuality and those who believe not to lose "the one" because of some distance, again not that you would understand.
You mean you don't.
Oh yeah I meant to say you don't have to worry. My bad that was a typo