Um just pointing this out, the asker is a guy not a girl
Oh hhahah oh well it works both ways.
True lol. by the way that's a great opinion, have a great rest of your day 👍
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what do you mean? she is a woman who cheated. She doesn't love him or respect him. There is no talking or reasoning with a person who doesn't respect you and hurts him the worst and most sadistic way. Instead of this useless advice, you should tell him to leave before she or one of her lovers kills him.
@startingfitness I was not going to give the simple, "just break up with them answer" because I have honestly learned that if a person wants to be in a relationship with someone who abuses them or cheats people online are not going to make them break up. They usually don't listen because their excuse is that they love them, so I gave them the best possible advice because in the end they are going to do what they feel is best.
@startingfitness People in toxic relationships do not usually listen to reason. You tell them to break up constantly but they refuse to because they believe they love that person so if they don't want to break up the only thing they can do is communicate. We also dont know the whole story.
okay, im sorry i shouldn't have come off aggressive. When i first read it, it seemed to me that you were lowkey tempting him to think about it and stay with her. But now i see that you weren't necessarily being biased. And you are right, i too have noticed that its hard to convince people when they still feel love.
@startingfitness Yeah thanks for being so cool. People on here have a habit of just being aggressive instead of listening to what others are saying.
yeah lol, the internet effect. I am not always cool, but im trying to work on it.
@startingfitness Same, we are human after all.
Great advice I hope she follows it
@itsmeamy The querant is a guy.
some people change. I've found that if you're willing to walk away again after they fuck up the 2nd chance they usually get their shit together on the third since they know you're not willing to put up with their shit and will walk away again.
Well said @wittymilf 😊