What's better, the honest truth I don't want to hear, or the sugarcoated lies?

Whats better, the honest truth I dont want to hear, or the sugarcoated lies?
I don't think I can stand either.
Here people costantly tell me things I don't want to hear but I know are true to varying degrees.
Off site she and another couple of people tell me more pleasant, sugarcoated things that I like to hear but know they aren't true to varying degrees.
All in all I just feel bitter, unwilling to relate to anyone and although I've ceased to openly alienating friends and family, I just low-key cut off relationships. I don't think there's any good or sincere way to go forward. It will only stagnate and then get worse.
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Still can't find a balance.
I feel bitter about practically anyone around me. I feel that the people in my life (and you all too) just look down at me or ignore me, if not detest me.
What's better, the honest truth I don't want to hear, or the sugarcoated lies?
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