My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and half years. He’s 21 and I’m 22. We both tend to have to same fight over and over again. He likes girls shaking there asses or have their boobs out on tik tok. Every time we have the fight or talk about it he says I’m controlling him because it doesn’t matter if he likes that stuff and it’s stupid. Usually he says he will stop. But end up doing it again. We were talking about it today because I found out he was doing it again. And he said he doesn’t like being told what to do. And that it annoys him that i am telling him what he can do. I don’t know if I should just let it go? I hold grudges and I don’t know how to move on from this when I tell him it is disrespectful and hurts my feelings and self confidences and he just does it again.